Well once upon a time there was a boy whose immigrant parents owned a grocery store. He had a sharp, prescient eye for design and after saving enough money from his design gig, he convinced his friends to start a company. His friends wanted to get 6 figure paying jobs at big corporations, but his energy and vision seduced them to create this yet unknown thing. His company came in at a time when laws were changing and there was a democratisation of the media, and consequently, he created a legacy.
He developed a taste for the finer things in life, and he loved collecting beautiful women. But at the end of it all, he valued his privacy the most, and the things that were important to him in the beginning when he was a struggling artist, never changed.
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I think most ENTJs, male or female, tend to have unconventional relationships with people. That kind of Beatrice/Dante, Goethe/Lotte, Vivienne Eliot/Scofield Thayer type relationship. Most of the ENTJ women I know though are attracted to creative types; those quiet thinkers with powerful voices who can melt their icy hearts.