Recent content by Grasshopper

Being completely in the moment.

Your situation is different from mine in that you have children to surrender to your HP as well. I wont even try to guess what that would be like. However, I have seen other women do it, and I know you can too. It comes down to a choice, and once you make that choice, you may have re-surrender...

Surrendering, and turning things over to God doesn't mean "switching" off anything. You don't have to turn your back or stop caring. What it does mean is that we continue to do the footwork, but we don't worry about the result. The result is up to God. We ask for guidance on a regular basis, and...

I think I understand what you are saying and you are right. In fact when we say that we are exactly where we are supposed to be, that is regardless of our choices or our trust in a higher power. Somehow God brings us where we are supposed to be even if we don't have full trust in Him. However...

You think it didn't work out because it wasn't the desired result you were looking for, but really it is all part of God's plan, and if you trusted Him it would work out. The reason why God allows us to go through life's struggles is because those struggles make us who we are and allow us to...

nevermind, I will send you a pm.

Meditation for me is just being still in a quiet place and connecting with my higher power by being open to Him guiding my thoughts. I used to always try to think about nothing, but I had someone describe it more like allowing the thoughts to come but just watching them like clouds floating by.

Having known you in real life I still believe that you are between two main types just like me. It is frustrating not to be one definite type, but I guess it may have it's pros as well. I think that you were referring to the online test you did when you say you tested INFJ. I would say, stick...

Meditation. Also, try reading the book "Power of Now", it tells you how to shut your ego up.

I completely agree with you. The questions aren't the best, and the results are based on unfair stereotypes. I am scared of spiders, but not of blood or rodents. On the other hand, my boyfriend is scared of snakes, and I am not. Anyway my results weren't accurate for me.

You Are 52% Feminine, 48% Masculine You are in touch with both your feminine and masculine sides. You're sensitive at the right times, but you don't let your emotions overwhelm you. You are tough but tender. Logical but emotional. You're not a eunuch, just the best of both...

This is so cool, congrats you two! I love the story about Puerto Rico.

Oh I know, it isn't easy! I have to stay aware, especially of my thoughts. I think we all have a saboteur in our heads, that is where all the negative thoughts come from. Anytime I start thinking these things, I make a point to realize it's my saboteur, over time my way of thinking has changed...

Well I think everyone struggles with this one. I have been putting a lot of effort into self improvement over the last year and a half and I can tell you this... When you are thinking about what someone is thinking about you, just flip the situation around, if you were them would you be...

I used to worry about fitting in. I couldn't understand why i was different, that was until I met Ria. I finally met someone like me, and I realized that my differences aren't necessarily a bad thing. We are just different. We fit into a different niche than our more popular counterparts. At the...