Recent content by GoofyGirl

Agreed. That was meant to be a little tongue in cheek.

Green, too. Had to make up a fake username and such.

I have strict rules about not dating coworkers. That said, my (now ex) husband started working for the same company I do a few years into our marriage, as it's an amazing place to be employed. A few years later he became involved with someone we both worked with. Yes, I know. Awkward. We...

I feel blessed to be an idealist. I would be an entirely different (and less enlightened) person without it. Although we frequently have a more difficult path, I believe it is a much more rewarding path to walk through life in the shoes of an NF. If I had to have it any other way, I would...

My ex-husband (it will be official next month) was first emotionally unfaithful in 2002 in our 4th year of marriage. She was long distance and he'd met her on the internet, as we had years before (we were geek pioneers, of sorts). She lived on the other coast, and there was never anything...

When: 1969 Where: San Francisco Why: Because I should have been a flower child. I don't live my life in that way now, but I think I would have relished the idealism in a culture that was just awakening.

I am going to go crazy just from the rain! I have only worn sandals once this year, and am wearing a sweater in June. Crazy. Oh, well. It was about time something happened here to scare the Californians away! :)

You Scored as Judge You are a Judge Empath, one who is a "truthsayer". You can tell truth from lies, good from evil. You do not tolerate wrong doing. You are a defender of the good and the innocent. You are kind and merciful but do not play foolish games. (from "The Book of Storms" by Jad...

Wow, the only one so far? Maybe the Energetic Dreamer is from my Italian side, but I don't remember any questions about using my hands a lot and being really animated. :) You Are An Energetic Dreamer You are always dreaming up new ideas, and your mind is always on fire. You don't let an...

When visiting my ex's family in Norway, I discovered that it isn't uncommon for some homes to be designed in a manner that we would think is reverse, e.g. bedrooms on the main floor, but stairway up to the main living area upstairs. If view and/or privacy is a consideration, reversing what...

Root: under-active (-25%) Sacral: open (56%) Navel: under-active (-6%) Heart: open (56%) Throat: open (50%) Third Eye: open (44%) Crown: open (25%) Another one of us with a low Root....

I've been wrestling a lot with anger these days, and have to consciously summon the part of my mind that can logically deal with this stuff and see the positive outcome. It is a very strange phenomenon for me that I may not be able to put into words, but I'm curious if others are able to call...

I couldn't have said it better from my own lips. For me, it's an internal dialogue that I'm not always cognizant of. I know from experience what making wrong decisions results in, and for me, it becomes a physical phenomena - a weight in my chest from doing the "wrong" thing. Over time, it...

Having lost my dad to brain cancer as a child, I've always been cognizant of chemical exposure and tried to mitigate it, within reason. Brain cancers are on the rise, and the majority of them are thought to be caused by environmental exposures vs a genetic connection. Living in a bubble isn't...

Thanks for the welcome! What a strangely cool forum - where I feel like I'm talking to myself. ; )