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  • Skarekrow
    Well...Maybe someday I will get married again....lol...I guess I’m a glutton for punishment...lol. I live with my girlfriend whom I actually met on this forum (Sensiko) and everything is really great between us. She had a really rough divorce a couple of years ago so we have both been though the ringer...both of us are honestly happy just living together and we really don’t see any reason to get married....if we did someday it would only be for things like tax purposes, putting her on my medical insurance, etc...
    I have always wanted a family....I was raised Mormon although we stopped going when I was about 16 when my older brother came out to my parents...the Mormons aren’t too supportive of the gay lifestyle, so my parents chose their son over the religion, which to this day I think was very awesome of them. I have known quite of few people who's parents have basically disowned them for the same reason.
    Skarekrow
    Seriously...well...she has her shit together now...she even has three found boys...I’m happy for her, although I still feel slighted by the whole thing...that was supposed to be my family...my boys.
    Still, if it wasn’t for that not working out, I would never have met my step-son Constantine...he is my greatest joy in this life...I have raised him since he was 2 yrs. old...he is now 10...he is truly a beautiful soul and my life has been all the more blessed with him in it...even though his Mom and I aren’t married anymore either...(my second and LAST failed marriage lol...nice track record right?)
    So technically in the eyes of the law, he isn’t even my step-son...I consider him my blood. The moment I met him and he looked up at me with his huge blue eyes and smiled at me we had an uncanny connection...I truly do believe that I was meant to be his Father...that our lives were the ones that should become entangled more so than his Mother and I.
    Alcoholics suck...I agree...lol.
    say what
    Skarekrow
    Interesting...I can be the life of the party (and have) if I so choose...but instead of giving me a boost (as it seems to do to extroverts) it just wears me out. I DO enjoy talking with people, don’t get me wrong...and I have been told that I can be very charming and interesting to talk to....but I really have to be in a certain mood. Thankfully, while we do surgery at work we usually don’t have conversation that is too in-depth...usually just a bit beyond small talk. You really have to maintain strong focus throughout (especially when I work in the heart room) and that can be mentally depleting by the end of the day...just having to concentrate without breaking it...our minds aren’t really set up to do that, they like to wander....lol.
    Part of the reason I don’t like to even go out or be around people drinking is because my ex-wife was an alcoholic, and I still believe it was her drinking that cause the ultimate destruction of our marriage...I used to have to be a babysitter, and parent, etc...everything but her husband because of her drinking. So drunk people can almost immediately piss me off...lol...and I know it’s mostly me and not them, but it still annoys me.
    Skarekrow
    That’s cool...just wondering...lol.
    I am pretty antisocial...it isn’t that I can’t function at such events, I just don’t enjoy it one bit...I would rather have a small get-together...plus I quit drinking since it inflames my arthritis something fierce and most social events are really just excuses to drink...no thinks...lol.
    Anyhow, nice to have you here!
    Eventhorizon
    Really? I was very disappointed with it. I had been using this screen name for years before the movie came out. Then when the movie came out everyone was like, Ooooh you liked the movie didnt you? And I was like noooooo the movie was horrible.

    But, I am glad you liked it. :)
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