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'It really helps to understand from their perspective of how it feels to go through life communicating in this fashion and people not wanting to take the time to see their perspective because they're upset by the words the person used, or think the things the person values are somehow cruel. You...

Really interested in INFJs experiences dating an ISFP. I am currently seeing a man who is very clearly an ISFP, the main issues for me have been that he is very focused on the present and what feels good in the moment, other than that he doesn't seem to care much for the future or self growth...

Hi Gaze! My mother is an INTP and my father is an INFP and their interactions are pretty similar to what you have described here, in fact, I think they will be getting divorced soon as there are way too many miscommunications between them when they do interact. Unfortunately the FI is lost on...

Very true. Most of us will potentially surround ourselves with those who reinforce our beliefs rather than challenge them.

Hi Ian! Thanks for your reply, you have a deep insight into the topic and I appreciate you responding, you raised some very good points. In regard to those who distransition this study comes to my mind from 2021 'Detransition-Related Needs and Support: A Cross-Sectional Online Survey' by Ellie...

I don't think questioning topics is being non empathetic, I can completely accept that someone is having a human experience while still critically evaluating it, I also am not sure why only certain people are allowed to be upset by things and are entitled to validation while others are told they...

I would love to hear what everyone's favourite philosophy quote is and why it speaks to you personally, also what your interpretation of it is! My all time favourite is 'the unexamined life is not worth living' - Socrates, because I value personal growth and evaluation above all else, and I...

We can not base fact off feeling, it is simply illogical and the idea of 'someone's truth' being valid reasoning, is greatly concerning to me, we can not base reality off 'someone's truth', they are welcome to live in whatever world they like and believe what they want, but I dislike that...

Honestly, just feeling like a total outcast is really hard. The top things that sucks most for me would be: 1. Being drained by small talk and very sensory driven conversations, I find topics that have no depth so severely draining, it is like someone is plugged into my energy source. The main...