Recent content by CoffeeShopDiva

That was my first post - in a long time. :P I'm very impressed someone noticed : )

I have a hard time making eye contact, too. I can do it if I really pay attention to it. But, my default setting is I have trouble looking people in the eyes (especially if I don`t know them or don`t trust them). I also tend to cross my arms, and do other closed off behaviours, sadly.

I miss this the most, too.

I am resilient. Definitely. I would change my introversion, probably. I'd like to be a social, outgoing, warm person.

I adore Jeff Buckley. And especially that song. :)

I do love others unconditionally. My best friend and my father, definitely. But, I don't have faith that others will love me unconditionally.

I have the opposite problem. When I'm down or stressed everything is a mess.

I find pain frustrating. I feel I have come to a place in my life where I suppose I'm being overwhelmed by the pain, and its making me slightly bitter. I know I should be growing through this, and I know I'm strong enough to deal with it. But, I wish I didnt have to be so strong. Why me? Why...

I don't understand this thread. She thought you were her FRIEND, and she came to you looking for support. I don't understand why a previous lack of interest on her part (especially if she lives far away) has anything to do with that.

I have two half-sisters who are quite a bit younger. But, they are quite a bit younger than me, so I don't think they have influenced me that much. My oldest little sister is an ISFP. I always feel the need to protect / care for her. She wears her heart on her sleeve, and isn't able to filter...

I think this is one of my biggest faults. This life never measures up to how it "should be". I am never in the present. I think that's one of the reasons I find myself attracted to ST types. They live in the present and can bring that out in me. I have a really hard time with feeling wanted...

It does feel good. To be flooded with good feelings. Well, it feels good until it ends or starts to scare away the other person. I tend to be clingy. And, its not a good thing. Is the only way to stop being overly attached complete detachment?

I have issues with attachment. I sometimes get very attached to people quickly (usually boys). Does anyone else have this issue? What do you do? I want to still be genuine and not play games, but I also don't want to scare people away.

I'm not a boy, but I do have a fuck buddy. I am looking for something genuine (in someone else), but I don't see why I can't have fun in the meantime. However, I don't think FBs work in general. Someone always gets too attached. And, in general, that would be me, so I haven't ever done it...

Am I the only INFJ who doesn't trust the ENTPs? Granted, I don't know any in real life. But, I don't think I could trust feelings coming from an ENTP. I would think they would find someone else to have feelings for quickly.