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    Do you often feel older than your peers?

    Did you ever feel that way when you were younger?
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    Under-employment

    TOTALLY sucks. But I can't help but see it everywhere I go. They want receptionists to have them now! I think if a BS is the new HS diploma, it should be paid for, too.
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    Do you often feel older than your peers?

    Afterthought: I do feel less advanced/mature/experienced in a few select areas than my peers. Sometimes its with how things work or the way I'm hung up on details and it seems to flow so naturally with others (hard to describe). But that might just be part of being an INFJ.
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    Do you often feel older than your peers?

    I act older naturally and I'm mistaken for 28ish all the time now. I think most INFJs seem older due to maturity level. Like 'old souls.' I've felt 5+ years older than my peers since I was about 8. Without meaning to, I tend to make friends with those in their late 20s or early 30s. It can be a...
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    Under-employment

    I am in that spot right this second. I'm still pursuing my BA (junior currently) so I don't have experience or qualifications from a degree and I can't seem to find ANYTHING. I'm in the awkward position of trying to accommodate an organ disease which causes several limitations and my desperate...
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    thoughts on INFJ aggression

    Agreed. I think with the ability of insight INFJs normally have, there's a huge risk for manipulation. I personally found myself being manipulative without consciously realizing it in an unhealthy relationship and had to actively avoid it. Its way too easy for most INFJs. I've never...
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    Anyone transferred from a US community college to a 4-year fancy undergraduate school?

    Oh and PS - The moving can be complicated and sometimes expensive, if you prepare enough its not so bad. Just pay some guys to pack all your boxes into the moving truck, make sure you can rent (or know someone who can) a U-haul, and that you have enough money for the deposit and rental costs of...
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    Anyone transferred from a US community college to a 4-year fancy undergraduate school?

    The general classes you take are likely to transfer, especially if you're in the same state as your desired school. However, the psych-specific courses might be a different level and not be accepted. The more obscure and specific the course, the lower the chance of it transferring. I transferred...
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    Enneagram Type 8

    I was typed as Enneagram type 8 from age 12 to 20ish. The description was hilariously accurate. In my opinion, type 8s and INFJs do share some similar qualities, but I grew into a type 8 mostly from extremes in environment. After therapy and dealing with some events/issues, I grew into myself a...
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    Why wouldn't you bother with your own boyfriend/girlfriend?

    I agree! I need a lot of support, but I give even more than I get. The word that keeps popping into my head to describe it is 'interactive.' There's just a lot of affection, support, and feelings being provided and given and its just busy with a lot going back and forth. I used to be...
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    Should I reactivate my WoW account?

    Oh no we don't! Not those of us that are actually good :P Beating the egotistical nerds at DPS just is way too much fun not to do it. You can just feel their epeens shrinking and withering away. Mmmm.
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    Why wouldn't you bother with your own boyfriend/girlfriend?

    I can't stand staying in relationships that don't give back the energy I put into them in the form of affection and support. It will absolutely drain me if I try to stay in that. I think some of that is an INFJ thing. Seems like a lot of people stay in a relationship out of laziness (when its...
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    Should I reactivate my WoW account?

    /raises geek flag Alright... I vote Shammy :P I <3 mine, though in Wrath I maxed every class except rogue. I was originally resto, but as you can see from the vagina comment, it didn't stick. I switched to enhance/ele. The ele damage in wrath was pretty awesome so I raided as that (plus my...
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    INFJ ignoring INTJ

    Haha I understand how crazy it can sound. But... yes it is! If you just say 'Hi,' then suddenly its on us to pull a conversation out of nowhere with someone that we don't know and don't know if we're comfortable with. That's a lot of pressure and takes a lot of energy out of us. Its not that we...
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    INFJ ignoring INTJ

    I think that might do well if she isn't an INFJ, but if she is, I think he'd be blowing his chances. Especially if she hasn't heard of MBTI. If a guy came up to me and started talking about something I'd never heard of or typing me when he hadn't spoken to me, I'd be turned off and irritated...