Recent content by bradgarbus

We are definitely here, I think some might agree that while there are a few of us, we don't really like the label. We are definitely around. :)

I am A+ (secretor), INFJ, Taurus / Wood Rabbit...

Exactly... I work at a big box club on the weekends doing demos of the food products and as people walk up I can feel what they are feeling and when the store is too crowded I feel like I want to run out screaming... lol "assaulted" is an appropriate word. One of my INFJ friends work...

I sit here in awe as I read this thread. A while back I created a page on my website and hid it, after reading many of the posts here on the forum I am making it public.... I too seem to have these "gifts" of NF http://www.bradgarbus.com/Personal-Details/health-history/special-gifts

I still struggle comparing myself to others. The only competition that I can consider is competition with yourself, along the lines of self improvement. Anything aside from that I just don't feel / can't feel good about... (and again, that is just me) Competition is a contest between...

I think for me, to be competitive a person must make the other person a looser, and that goes against my instinct to help others, not harm... I have always felt like the term "healthy-competition" was an oxymoron.

There is a movie out now, came out in 2006 I think. Amazing stuff. Really helped me pump up my NF ... :) Great movie and I even love the trailer too! I just started this discussion about the movie... http://www.infjs.com/forums/showthread.php?t=20262&referrerid=4944

Well I tend to gravitate toward female friends because they tend to be more gentle and open. Until I found this forum and other INFJs most guys were too 'one tracked' and couldn't relate to me. That and the small fact that I am a gay guy doesn't help... I would do anything for a few male...

Have you ever seen the movie or read the book "The Celestine Prophecy" ? It has opened my mind to thinking about 'our gifts' in new ways... Pretty amazing... Every time I watch the movie I get goose bumps and cry... I think when we look at our gifts using the imagination it helps us not...

Competition often separates us... It creates winners and losers which I am not morally comfortable with... I do not not like competitive sports at all. It annoys me and always has. I don't mind being wrong, when it comes to life in general I try to be very fluid and easy going when it...

feeling unconditional love... that makes me not only strong, but makes time seem to stand still in that moment.

You Are the New Moon You are most aligned with the new moon which represents rest, reflection, and renewal. You are appreciative of all of the good things in your life. You count your blessings. You are good natured and people enjoy your company. You put people at ease and make them feel at...

It has always been my practice to take good care of myself, eat properly (mostly vegetarian)... Just let your immune system do it's job. I too have never had a shot... I also very very rarely get sick, maybe once every 4 - 5 years.

That is the first time I have heard the term "bromance", but it exactly describes many of my relationships with my straight guy friends. Which interestingly are all Pisces. I should find out, but I bet most of them are INF types... Hmmm...

Well, I can share my experience here. My partner of 10 years and I are both INFJ's. We generally get along very well, but until recently when we learned we were both INFJ that the deep level of trust and feelings just didn't seem to exist. I attribute this to being the same personality...