Recent content by BMatt

Fixed this for you. B

I'll give you a vast amount of credit for calling me out on the one piece of the puzzle that I felt as though I should include. . . but I was worried that it might be too subjective to my own experience to be worth including for this one post. My intention was to refine it before posting...

While this is an idea that is mostly centered on Ni vs Ne, I figured I'd toss in some S functions as well. Anyway, on the topic of fish Se: It's a fish . . . why the hell are we talking about a fish? Si: It was a fish yesterday, it was a fish last week, it was a fish last year. . . ...

Comparing myself to the two ENFJs that I'm friends with . . . it's somewhat shocking to me how similar yet completely different we are. I'd also consider the ENFJ that I work with to be far more 'shy' than I am. The key difference is the primary thing that defines who you are. I only dig...

Never has a truer explanation of myself been uttered. (the rest of that post was dead on as well) You made a point about authenticity. . . which is something that seems to create a huge separation between my thoughts and those of most people around me. Something as simple as taking...

So, I'd agree with this, however I feel it points to a different issue . . . though perhaps I'll expand because it is somewhat related. I'm somewhat compulsively nice to everyone . . . . I could expand on this, but it's kinda embarrassingly comical. But what's relevant, is that I tend to treat...

I spent 10 minutes trying to come up with a decent title for this tread before I got annoyed and went with something stupid. Anyway, I had a discussion with an ex of mine last week . . . It was unpleasant, she was hostile, and in the end we established that she still hates me. But a...

I agree with you on how simple it would be . . . but like I'm not the one you're trying to convince. If I were a person looking for a date, I'd want one with people on it to date. Creating a profile on a site that won't have people for me to date for an extended period of time would be silly ...

This would be the ideal, but the problem I've found with certain subjects is that they don't necessarily make sense to my intuition. . . so I end up going through some crazy bullshit mental process that doesn't suit me to try to memorize stuff. Personally I have a terrible time memorizing...

I've heard of a lot of free online dating sites which have an awesome idea for what makes them special, but anyone who goes to check them out says that their nearest match that isn't a practicing Wiccan lives more than 200 miles away. Not to be dreary, but regardless of how good your idea...

If you've never seen it, you should watch the movie "Idiocracy". Personally, I'd fully agree with the argument, but it doesn't seem like any sort of huge revelation. . . so much as a random rant about how stupid people are. Back in the day people had it hard. They had to battle the giant...

This is a question I've been thinking about for a long time, but have never really reached a proper answer. I'll give my viewpoints on the topic, however taking my advice on studying is like asking Evil Knievel advice on riding a moped. I wont pry into your statements about learning...

I don't mean to say that we should never doubt ourselves . . . That would be dangerous and thoroughly unhealthy. Disclaimer: I don't mean the following statements to be assertions of truth, but rather potential starting points for discussion. What seems to constantly get me is the...

Your descriptions of your experiences in this relationship are incredibly similar to things I've experienced . . . It's kinda scary. Since you're interested in understanding motives, and are confused by seemingly contradictory reactions, I'll share some bits of my story which might help shed...

I'd make the argument that any true-to-type INFJ would always believe that they're always right . . . Deviation from that state would involve discarding the fundamental INFJ traits of idealistic perfectionism. So the question: Does this hint that an INFJ is only healthy when they learn...