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    Four Temperaments Test

    Melancholy Phlegmatic 0 Sanguine, 57 Melancholy, 21 Choleric, 57 Phlegmatic Sanguine Distribution You scored 0% on Sanguine, higher than 5% of your peers. Melancholy Distribution You scored 57% on Melancholy, higher than 70% of your peers. Choleric Distribution You scored 21% on...
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    The Ideal Job for your personality

    Your result for The Ideal Job for Your Personality Test Journalist You scored 56 intelligence, 46 diligence, 44 charisma, and 59 compassion!
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    Pet Peeves

    This.
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    Turnoffs: Things that turn you off in another

    Jealousy and arbitrary suspicions. This is the ultimate red flag for me. Run, girl, run!
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    Pet Peeves

    People who clap to the beat in concerts when the song is being tragic.
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    Premonitions of a future life

    I've had one. It happened when I was a child, maybe 10 years old. I suddenly woke up in the morning and had a strange feeling that the telephone is about to ring and someone is calling that my grandmom has passed away. Within a few seconds the phone did rang and later that day when my dad told...
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    INFJ and Emotional Intelligence

    This is something I must consciously remind myself. I absorb other people's strong emotions so automatically and holistically that is rarely helpful in the situation. In fact, when dealing with negative emotions it's often the opposite. I really need to focus so I become aware of this so I can...
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    Can you evolve into an INFJ?

    Hmm. I must say I'm a bit confused here. Are you saying that when typing people it doesn't matter whether the auxiliary and tertiary functions are introverted or extraverted, only thing that counts is the order?
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    What Is Your Brain Actually Good At?

    Logical mind.
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    J vs P differences

    I quoted a post back from 2013 but couldn't help it because I read the article today and it was very interesting. It really messes up the stereotypical J/P descriptions and I like it! What really got my attention was the comparison of IP/EJ and IJ/EP thought processes when performing a task...
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    Going from dating older men to dating younger men

    Yeah, I wouldn't have it either. But there are people who don't want to commit anymore but still want someone in their lives. And that's ok if both partners have same expectations and neither one is "settling" for anything. I guess that it would work if for example both had already been married...
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    Going from dating older men to dating younger men

    Many "older", or should I say "more experienced" men (and women) who have been in a serious, long-term relationship before have sort of "been there done that" -attitude towards dating and romantic relationships. They're not interested in having another all-in relationship where they would share...
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    Ni-doms, how do you approach new situations?

    Do you quickly just roll up your sleeves and start acting or do you need time for observation? I've been thinking about this because I was temporarily working in a different environment than my regular workplace. There was this woman who was also new there but she immediately took charge...
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    Women: are you a domestic goddess?

    Are you a domestic goddess? No. Do you feel, if you are living with a partner, that it's still mostly your responsibility to maintain your place/home? Feel - strangely yes, think - no. I think that because me and my husband have full-time jobs outside our home we are both equally responsible of...
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    Deep Dark Fears

    How did they get inside my head..? That's creepy...