Recent content by BcL

Thanks, this helps me to flesh out my thoughts to come to some type of sound conclusion. Yes, that's what I get caught in - imaginging alternatives to compensate for the duration of that relationship or friendship. Like you say, maybe this type of daydreaming are natural, and even healthy. You...

It was more of a we all stopped calling each other type of thing. It was a situation where I'd be chasing people around, begging for friendship. Judging by these responses, I can see that I enjoyed the experience of "me" more when certain people were around. I guess I don't love myself as much...

Any infjs here ever had trouble letting go of any friends or relationships that ended years ago? I daydream and think about friendships/relationships I used to have as a teen, and in childhood almost everyday I'm ashamed to admit. For some reason, a part of me has found it very tricky to get to...

That is a great analogy for how Ni works. It's not even thought that's happening. It's images, dreams, and patterns that come to mind. I really do think about where this comes from. Ni is a beautiful creative process. I'm not sure if I'm consciously making it happen or not. I do love Ni. We are...

Interesting discussion. I've been in verbally abusive relationships/friendships where others have needed me to agree with their words. Their desperation vibe was off the scale. I can think of one ex best friend in my teens who would put down my looks almost everyday, even in front others. They...

My intuition is so strange. I often feel hesitant to reveal it to others, because I cannot explain where my ideas came from! I do listen to myself more nowadays without pushing it away because it's so weird it has a way of almost chasing me until I give in. Sometimes I just want to feel "normal"...

It's a pleasure to meet you too. Exactly, if someone's not interested in someone else, why on earth should someone pretend to be?! I got so damn tired of oeople pleasing, if I get gossiped about or whatever so be it, I'm just not bothered anymore... It's been said that those conversations are...

These are some recent thoughts on my life living with an introverted perspective. I'm beginning to like myself as I am, and feel more complete. I've got all the acceptance in the world within myself. It's been there the whole time. Embarrassingly, I've spent countless years trying to be at...