Thoughts on compatibility and the like?

Okay, I had another question about this person I've been seeing a bit.

I was just thinking about the whole notion of compatibility, and what relation that has to the longevity of relationships working out? I've noticed that there's a lot of impetus put on specific unyielding factors but is it always the case? It's this this woman I met, we're both really similar and have a lot in common, and similar backgrounds and I think that's part of the reason we have a connection?

I don't think she's another Infp though, she seems kind of introverted but more quite then me, but I think we're fairly compatible temperament and interactions with each other and there's differences enough that make it exciting...

It's actually kind of weird because she's kind of a tomboy, and I think she's a T because she ignores her feelings a lot, but she's still quite individualistic and she likes metallica and stuff. She's drill very feminine though and not cold or unmoved by things...


I was wondering too, we'll, is looking for too much compatibility looking to be doomed? It feels like a must to me though...
It's kind of funny, but it actually reminds me of the relationship of Cloud and Tifa in ff7, lol.