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The bad news on human nature, in 10 findings from psychology

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I love the essence of humanity. I think that the good outweighs the bad. But this is an interesting article and has some good points.
Human nature is fascinating! And then...whats nature and whats nurture/cultural/social conditioning?
How much of this is evolutionary survival mechanisms?

https://aeon.co/ideas/the-bad-news-on-human-nature-in-10-findings-from-psychology

It’s a question that’s reverberated through the ages – are humans, though imperfect, essentially kind, sensible, good-natured creatures? Or are we, deep down, wired to be bad, blinkered, idle, vain, vengeful and selfish? There are no easy answers, and there’s clearly a lot of variation between individuals, but here we shine some evidence-based light on the matter through 10 dispiriting findings that reveal the darker and less impressive aspects of human nature:

We view minorities and the vulnerable as less than human. One striking example of this blatant dehumanisation came from a brain-scan study that found a small group of students exhibited less neural activity associated with thinking about people when they looked at pictures of the homeless or of drug addicts, as compared with higher-status individuals. Another study showed that people who are opposed to Arab immigration tended to rate Arabs and Muslims as literally less evolved than average. Among other examples, there’s also evidence that young people dehumanise older people; and that men and women alike dehumanise drunk women. What’s more, the inclination to dehumanise starts early – children as young as five view out-group faces (of people from a different city or a different gender to the child) as less human than in-group faces.

We experience Schadenfreude (pleasure at another person’s distress) by the age of four, according to a study from 2013. That sense is heightened if the child perceives that the person deserves the distress. A more recent study found that, by age six, children will pay to watch an antisocial puppet being hit, rather than spending the money on stickers.

We believe in karma – assuming that the downtrodden of the world deserve their fate. The unfortunate consequences of such beliefs were first demonstrated in the now classic research from 1966 by the American psychologists Melvin Lerner and Carolyn Simmons. In their experiment, in which a female learner was punished with electric shocks for wrong answers, women participants subsequently rated her as less likeable and admirable when they heard that they would be seeing her suffer again, and especially if they felt powerless to minimise this suffering. Since then, research has shown our willingness to blame the poor, rape victims, AIDS patients and others for their fate, so as to preserve our belief in a just world. By extension, the same or similar processes are likely responsible for our subconscious rose-tinted view of rich people.

We are blinkered and dogmatic. If people were rational and open-minded, then the straightforward way to correct someone’s false beliefs would be to present them with some relevant facts. However a classic study from 1979 showed the futility of this approach – participants who believed strongly for or against the death penalty completely ignored facts that undermined their position, actually doubling-down on their initial view. This seems to occur in part because we see opposing facts as undermining our sense of identity. It doesn’t help that many of us are overconfident about how much we understand things and that, when we believe our opinions are superior to others, this deters us from seeking out further relevant knowledge.

We would rather electrocute ourselves than spend time in our own thoughts. This was demonstrated in a controversial 2014 study in which 67 per cent of male participants and 25 per cent of female participants opted to give themselves unpleasant electric shocks rather than spend 15 minutes in peaceful contemplation.

We are vain and overconfident. Our irrationality and dogmatism might not be so bad were they married to some humility and self-insight, but most of us walk about with inflated views of our abilities and qualities, such as our driving skills, intelligence and attractiveness – a phenomenon that’s been dubbed the Lake Wobegon Effect after the fictional town where ‘all the women are strong, all the men are good-looking, and all the children are above average’. Ironically, the least skilled among us are the most prone to overconfidence (the so-called Dunning-Kruger effect). This vain self-enhancement seems to be most extreme and irrational in the case of our morality, such as in how principled and fair we think we are. In fact, even jailed criminals think they are kinder, more trustworthy and honest than the average member of the public.

We are moral hypocrites. It pays to be wary of those who are the quickest and loudest in condemning the moral failings of others – the chances are that moral preachers are as guilty themselves, but take a far lighter view of their own transgressions. In one study, researchers found that people rated the exact same selfish behaviour (giving themselves the quicker and easier of two experimental tasks on offer) as being far less fair when perpetuated by others. Similarly, there is a long-studied phenomenon known as actor-observer asymmetry, which in part describes our tendency to attribute other people’s bad deeds, such as our partner’s infidelities, to their character, while attributing the same deeds performed by ourselves to the situation at hand. These self-serving double standards could even explain the common feeling that incivility is on the increase – recent research shows that we view the same acts of rudeness far more harshly when they are committed by strangers than by our friends or ourselves.

We are all potential trolls. As anyone who has found themselves in a spat on Twitter will attest, social media might be magnifying some of the worst aspects of human nature, in part due to the online disinhibition effect, and the fact that anonymity (easy to achieve online) is known to increase our inclinations for immorality. While research has suggested that people who are prone to everyday sadism (a worryingly high proportion of us) are especially inclined to online trolling, a study published last year revealed how being in a bad mood, and being exposed to trolling by others, double the likelihood of a person engaging in trolling themselves. In fact, initial trolling by a few can cause a snowball of increasing negativity, which is exactly what researchers found when they studied reader discussion on CNN.com, with the ‘proportion of flagged posts and proportion of users with flagged posts … rising over time’.

We favour ineffective leaders with psychopathic traits. The American personality psychologist Dan McAdams recently concluded that the US President Donald Trump’s overt aggression and insults have a ‘primal appeal’, and that his ‘incendiary Tweets’ are like the ‘charging displays’ of an alpha male chimp, ‘designed to intimidate’. If McAdams’s assessment is true, it would fit into a wider pattern – the finding that psychopathic traits are more common than average among leaders. Take the survey of financial leaders in New York that found they scored highly on psychopathic traits but lower than average in emotional intelligence. A meta-analysis published this summer concluded that there is indeed a modest but significant link between higher trait psychopathy and gaining leadership positions, which is important since psychopathy also correlates with poorer leadership.

We are sexually attracted to people with dark personality traits. Not only do we elect people with psychopathic traits to become our leaders, evidence suggests that men and women are sexually attracted, at least in the short term, to people displaying the so-called ‘dark triad’ of traits – narcissism, psychopathy and Machiavellianism – thus risking further propagating these traits. One study found that a man’s physical attractiveness to women was increased when he was described as self-interested, manipulative and insensitive. One theory is that the dark traits successfully communicate ‘mate quality’ in terms of confidence and the willingness to take risks. Does this matter for the future of our species? Perhaps it does – another paper, from 2016, found that those women who were more strongly attracted to narcissistic men’s faces tended to have more children.

Don’t get too down – these findings say nothing of the success that some of us have had in overcoming our baser instincts. In fact, it is arguably by acknowledging and understanding our shortcomings that we can more successfully overcome them, and so cultivate the better angels of our nature.

This is an adaptation of an article originally published by The British Psychological Society’s Research Digest

Christian Jarrett is a senior editor at Aeon+Psyche, with particular responsibility for writing and commissioning at Psyche. A cognitive neuroscientist by training, his books include The Rough Guide to Psychology (2011) and Great Myths of the Brain (2014). His next, on personality change, will be published in 2021.

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The British Psychological Society’s Research Digest
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Well I only relate to "We are all potential trolls." which I usually troll for fun especially when someone asking for it. Other than that I don't relate to these. Oh my The Meme Lord™, I think I came from another planet!!! :grinning::grinning::grinning:

We view minorities and the vulnerable as less than human

This behaviour is actually us vs them mentality and directly related to survival mechanism because life form wants to think it has X qualities which are whatever makes it feel superior enough to survive well therefore life form believes any life forms that looks like it is also superior as it but it's just because the other life form doesn't look like it so it underestimates it intentionally because it doesn't want to feel the unfamiliar life form is superior. It's so because life forms tend to think familiar life forms are an ally because a life form associates itself with the familiar life form therefore it thinks "I wouldn't hurt myself so why would a life form that looks like me would hurt me?". This opinion is actually why social life forms are social. A life form tends to consider the unfamiliar life form an enemy just because life form is afraid of the unknown because the unknown may cause death.

TBH this us vs them mentality obliviously a good example of evolution gone wrong because the life form underestimates the unfamiliar life form, it overestimates itself and it's naive enough to believe familiar life form is an ally therefore this mentality makes the life-form die stupidly.

To me, humanity-wise everyone is equal because they look the same to me. I mean not just physically but also fundamentally. Some people are like a donkey that wears gold but some donkeys are naked and dirty but to me fundamentally they are a donkey and that's what matters (I used donkey as example because my native language is Turkish and I translated a Turkish phrase that's about this opinion LOL.). I may think everyone is equally at the same level of humanity but I don't see everyone equally interesting. So many people are like copy-paste non-playable character like in video games therefore I don't really have to think about them much to write a book about them even though I know them for like 1 second. On the other hand, some rare people are the people I'll never write a few words about them because they are like an alien.

We experience Schadenfreude (pleasure at another person’s distress) by the age of four

This pleasure comes from the opinion that "good thing I'm not in that situation". I guess a life form that values survival and also cares about how superior it's would feel such pleasure.

Though that's why cartoons are all about the bad guy suffering and good guys enjoying it which is a kinda hypocritical sense of morality LOL.

Well, I'm not a sadist so I don't relate. I don't particularly even feel pleasure for the revenge I took but it depends on my mood TBH. For example, I don't like cringe comedy and don't feel better because someone is lesser than me because no matter what my value won't change.

We believe in karma – assuming that the downtrodden of the world deserve their fate

It's part of why God is invented. God is a joker for any human wish that humans can't have. Karma is BS as much as God in which only life forms that had faulty evolution step believe in such BS.

Beliving in karma also because of cartoons in which bad people always lose but such bad apples invented such BS cartoons in the first place. The thing is bad and smart people always win in society while good people intentionally okay to be losing so it proves karma is BS.

We are blinkered and dogmatic

This is also because of us vs them mentality and therefore caused by faulty evolution.

We would rather electrocute ourselves than spend time in our own thoughts

It's because bad apples don't have the brain to deal with reality so their brain constantly wants to distract itself with happy stuff to avoid going insane more because they went insane enough by just simply came into existence and realized they'll die. That's why social media, Netflix, TikTok, porn, anime, etc. are so popular. It's also evolution gone wrong stuff.

Well, meditating is an important part of my life because the brain is the stomach for thoughts so it needs to digest itself and you have to shit these thoughts at some point which I call meditating. The point is taking care of your mental health, not ego masturbating over the fact that you are a philosopher God or something.

We are vain and overconfident

It's so because bad apples believe believing they are superior makes them a great survivor by desperately hoping so. But there is a thing about believing: We can't perceive the reality as it's 100% because we identify reality according to our personality, capability of our senses and our knowledge so we create a dream according to what makes us suffer less so this dream we create is called believing, so, some people believe in X to make X real as how we perceive the reality which is idiotic. This is also faulty evolution.

We are moral hypocrites

The sense of morality is the most complex and enigmatic part of any life form in my opinion which no wonder so many people have a different definition for it. The source of morality is personality but actually not everyone borns with morality. Most people learn it later if they can ever learn it. So, morality is a personality trait but I find this trait way different from other traits because personality traits are standard in which everyone who has the same trait behaves the same but not everyone who has morality behaves the same. Some are forceful with their morality but some are very selective with it. And what everyone considers bad and good depends on their personality which is why people ever fights with each other because they believe their subjective opinion is objective truth which is why they are moral hypocrites. It's also evolution went the wrong BS.

For example, sometimes me and my sister fight because my sister believes I was rude and she thinks I shouldn't be rude to her if I care about her but she herself being rude to me by the way she accusing me of being rude. What an irony. Perhaps we gotta divide morality from personal preference because, for example, my sister wouldn't be rude to me if she had a morality sense of rude. She only cares about me not being rude to her personal preference-wise. Then what's morality?

Morality is how a person should behave including themselves but it's not morality if you define it as "how a person should behave so I won't dislike them" because by so you kinda mean "person" as "others" and therefore it became a personal preference statement so you became a moral hypocrite.

We are all potential trolls.

It's a survival mechanism. We need our dark side to survive which is why we are violent. Though it's actually evolution gone right aspect of the humanity. It may be primitive as much as love but we need to be violent to survive.

Though why someone is a troll makes all the difference. I troll people because I think it's funny so it's my way of joking around and thus I have fun. I don't have a reason to attack people randomly. I'm a person who defends himself.

We favour ineffective leaders with psychopathic traits

It has to do with the "monsters are great at survival" belief we have according to our survival mechanism so no wonder people choose a monster as a leader. Who would choose someone who cries for silly trivial things as a leader? Who would choose a non-monster to deal with monsters? I also think life is the ultimate monster so only a monster can have a great life.

We are sexually attracted to people with dark personality traits.

Well as a demisexual I can't relate but yeah people tend to choose trash as a partner and no wonder they get murdered by their partner, lover, ex, et cetera.

Though what I experienced is I'm so dark people run away from me. So many females said how scary I look, that I have a giant "fuck off" aura all around me so I guess people love the darkness in proper amount. Though some people tried to rape me, perhaps it was because of how dark I'm LOL. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯



Well even though this article was written in so generalized way that ain't true by using data that are formed by not enough experiments to consider it as proof I enjoyed it because even though it didn't teach me anything at least I think I can use it for figuring out some answers about life forms in general.
 
To think this world is a cold and dark place the more one thinks much less looks into the dark abyss that is this human experience. In the end I rather walk away from this mess and wake up to a different life somewhere off in the universe far from here as if this were all just a shit dream.
 
You can face the darkness and choose to let it consume you or you can just turn the lights on
 
Looks like this thread was bumped, like our souls after realizing the contradictions between how we see ourselves and how we really are.

existence is thrilling, terrifying, and terrifyingly beautiful in its rawness. Can make us quite insecure. It is like we are human beings or something.
 
"We are sexually attracted to people with dark personality traits. Not only do we elect people with psychopathic traits to become our leaders, evidence suggests that men and women are sexually attracted, at least in the short term, to people displaying the so-called ‘dark triad’ of traits – narcissism, psychopathy and Machiavellianism – thus risking further propagating these traits. One study found that a man’s physical attractiveness to women was increased when he was described as self-interested, manipulative and insensitive. One theory is that the dark traits successfully communicate ‘mate quality’ in terms of confidence and the willingness to take risks. Does this matter for the future of our species? Perhaps it does – another paper, from 2016, found that those women who were more strongly attracted to narcissistic men’s faces tended to have more children."

 
I think it's good to note that we used to interbreed with the Neanderthals before we murdered them off, and they were a much more peaceful species.
 
I think it's good to note that we used to interbreed with the Neanderthals before we murdered them off, and they were a much more peaceful species.

But before that we evolved from a bacteria type that's sensitive to light when a virus got inside of that kind of bacteria, mutated and produced. No wonder humans are like a virus. Look at the world and be amazed by how we infected it and repurposed it for ourselves so much like the true virus we are :grinning::grinning::grinning:. So, no amount of interbreeding with the Neanderthals and whatnot pathetic life forms would make us be peaceful folks like the pathetic life form Neanderthals were because peaceful life forms probably only evolved from bacterias :grinning::grinning::grinning:. In that regard, virus is the only predator one so you can hear good bacteria but you can't hear good virus though there are beneficial viruses which are no different than how COVID19 is so beneficial on cleaning the society from bad apples thanks to natural selection amen™. :grinning::grinning::grinning:
 
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