Not entirely sure how an INFJ thinks and so would love to receive advice on what to do in this situation...
We knew each other for few months, and we have been hanging out every other day. I've told her that I like her a month after we met, and she said she's not ready but we stayed close. She's just gone abroad to study, and might not be coming back home ever; while as open as I am to move anywhere, I'm gonna be staying home for at least the near future. Right before she left, she told me that she likes me as a friend instead of a boyfriend. I asked why and what could I have done better, she said I've already done a lot and it's not my problem, but just her feeling.
So with my personality, I was thinking what was I not doing good enough - is it all set in stone now, like when an INFJ said we're friends then we're done forever? Were few months too short for her to make the decision, so she rejected kindly to prevent both of us from wasting time? What if I stayed consistent and continue getting to know her maybe as a friend in this coming period - is there possibility to turn the situation? Does she make the decision because she doesn't see the future, or would that change if I'm really moving over?...etc.
I don't mind waiting and doing all I could if the situation could still be turned around. Thanks in advance for any advice!
We knew each other for few months, and we have been hanging out every other day. I've told her that I like her a month after we met, and she said she's not ready but we stayed close. She's just gone abroad to study, and might not be coming back home ever; while as open as I am to move anywhere, I'm gonna be staying home for at least the near future. Right before she left, she told me that she likes me as a friend instead of a boyfriend. I asked why and what could I have done better, she said I've already done a lot and it's not my problem, but just her feeling.
So with my personality, I was thinking what was I not doing good enough - is it all set in stone now, like when an INFJ said we're friends then we're done forever? Were few months too short for her to make the decision, so she rejected kindly to prevent both of us from wasting time? What if I stayed consistent and continue getting to know her maybe as a friend in this coming period - is there possibility to turn the situation? Does she make the decision because she doesn't see the future, or would that change if I'm really moving over?...etc.
I don't mind waiting and doing all I could if the situation could still be turned around. Thanks in advance for any advice!