When necessary you may have to part ways with the one that you are with, do you feel that (or how often has been the case) that you did it not to hurt someone or stop hurting them? Some of the threads started here indicate that we tend to be victims more often because of our introverted nature but that doesn't mean that on a one on one level we don't have our differences with our partners and it isn't always the other persons fault. I had the tendancy to keep them at a distance, let them in on my own terms which was turtle slow, then they would get mad because I had my on and off days emotionally and they felt I was holding back.
