This is more directed to INFPs: I am trying to court an INFP right now. There was attraction in the beginning, then it got colder, then warmer again, and so on. I don't know where we are now, but take it as it is. I'm interested in her, but don't want to move too fast.
I wanted to know: What is it that you find attractive about INTJs? From my experience with INFPs (or probably with all women), strength has something to do with it. The confidence, the "knowing what you want and where to go". What else? The enigma, the intellectuality, the cold exterior?
And how do you think should I proceed? I feel that if I ask her out now, she will say no. I'm pretty certain about that, that's no good move.
I wanted to know: What is it that you find attractive about INTJs? From my experience with INFPs (or probably with all women), strength has something to do with it. The confidence, the "knowing what you want and where to go". What else? The enigma, the intellectuality, the cold exterior?
And how do you think should I proceed? I feel that if I ask her out now, she will say no. I'm pretty certain about that, that's no good move.