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INFJ queerness

Straight istj here.

No surprise there.
 
I've been typed as being...paranoid. Hate it. People just don't understand me. What some people see is not reality, but merely a misunderstanding.
My "paranoia" says there are people out there trying to get people to turn gay; trying to tell people it is the norm, when it is not. Heck, I don't try to make others paranoid. heh


I'm glad that you put the word paranoia in quotes, because if you or anyone are correct in a suspicion, then you or they are not paranoid regarding that matter.

My guess is that those who labelled you, were conducting an ad hom attack designed to discredit you.
 
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I can see why people would think we are like that. Sensitivity and open-mindedness are quickly damned nowadays, if not always, and forevermore.

I am personally Bisexual, but I am not so for the sake of being so, and it does not make me promiscuous. On the contrary; I abhor promiscuity and cut off all such things like it. I am simply following my heart alongside my intuitive sense of the correct path and a bit of reasoning to make sure I avoid mistakes. I think most INFJs out there are more willing to follow themselves in this way than most people are comfortable with. In any case, as I always say, INFJs should just be themselves anyway. The bewildered faces of the masses may yet turn to applause... in time. With assertion and tact.