INFJ and turning cold

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rangrang88

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what does it mean when an INFJ tells you they are turning emotionally cold ? Does it mean they are angry and hurt/cut deeply?
 
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Well, this is pretty serious. He or she will probably require the use of a blanket and some warmer clothing, for starters. Next I would suggest you recommend some hot liquids to bring the body core temperature up. Being cold is no fun, man. I prefer being warm.
 
Ryso89 said:
Well, this is pretty serious. He or she will probably require the use of a blanket and some warmer clothing, for starters. Next I would suggest you recommend some hot liquids to bring the body core temperature up. Being cold is no fun, man. I prefer being warm.
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LMAO. To be honest, i had a pretty good laugh at this one. were you being sarcastic? i mean emotionally cold, not physically!
 
For me, it is one of two things:

- A protective shell.
Something triggered my need to be more careful about opening up. INFJ are slow to trust.
In this case, I could warm up with time.

- I am completely done with you and/or don't want to know you.
This is rare for me (I cannot speak for others), but once this happens there is barely a chance I will ever warm up.
 
it means this:

"your name like ice into my heart"

[video=youtube;ESZ9_LgmLN0]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESZ9_LgmLN0&feature=youtu.be[/video]
 
Asa said:
- I am completely done with you and/or don't want to know you.
This is rare for me (I cannot speak for others), but once this happens there is barely a chance I will ever warm up.
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This.

I am slow to warm up but going cold is this to me. It usually involves deep hurt, breach of trust, and/or unresolved issues over time.
 
rangrang88 said:
were you being sarcastic?
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I thought it was obvious? :)

On topic, I've recently turned cold on a "friend" (loose term) whom I've gotten to know better after recent events. I've learned that he is a toxic, unhealthy person and I just don't like him. I'm soon to erase him from my life with no explanation.
 
It means you better bust out some genuine words of kindness or your ass is about to board a one way trip to byebyezville
 
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