Yes; i'm not saying this "yes" just to keep my thread visible; I am agreeing with everybody. I think the more I go over the INFJ strengths and weaknesses lists, the more I see how the world can collide with us, and run over us as if on train tracks if we don't choose a sensible way to go as far as how we present ourselves professionally in the world. I don't know about other INFJ's (it might be just my own birth chart), but as for myself the leadership skills I have are not readily recogniseable to most extroverts and to some, I am a threat because my leadership is not "their style" anyway and "would not fit in with their (organization, business, etc.)" and this is exactly why I haven't been able to put together a decent career now that half of my life is already over.
I do sound gloomy, now, because half of what people could list on resumes as far as skills that employers should take note of cannot be posted anyway, in this day and age of political correctness. "don't list this that or the other if it is related to race, religion, sex, creed, etc......" Makes me extremely angry now.