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Everyday Stress

Trifoilum

find wisdom, build hope.
Dec 27, 2009
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Any idiot can face a crisis - it's day to day living that wears you out.
Anton Chekhov

You know them; things in your life -- small things, maybe. Sometimes they're not so small, but UGH. They don't hit like ram-- they grate instead.
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Do you consider yourself adept in handling your daily problems?
What are your daily stress? What are the things that irks you the most?
Do you agree with the above quote-- that it's the small things that wears you out?
 
Yes, sometimes in some periods I feel worn and exhousted without obvious reasons. Small decisions, small problems, but I feel as if I can't move. Usually stuff with people makes me stressed. You know, someone says that, the other one this. maybe I am too weak, I don't know, but it can be tough.
[MENTION=2172]Trifoilum[/MENTION]
Off the topic: have I ever told you how I like your text under the nick, "Find wisdom, build hope.". I had stressful period before my trip two weeks ago. Yes, lot of small everyday stresses. One morning while I was travelling I went to swimm and there was I: in sea, thinking (or overthinking:) why am I such weak being to feel often tired, in psyhological way. I stopped to pray for concrete things just wishing that I can face calmly all things in my life. And then I "heard" that title of yours and it was aha moment: because wise man/woman is one who know how to deal in proper way both good and bad, one who can find joy in most moments of life - that peaceful and wise feeling is hope. There is no real hope without wisdom.
 
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