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Do you communicate more comfortably through speech or silence?

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    Do you tend to communicate more comfortable through speech or silence irl?
     
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    I completely understand the importance of this two things. I agree both are much needed and balanced. Otherwise one will be sitting others will be in their tune. One sided, i meant.

    So when i am silent my friend says and when friend says i am silent. After we both will be silent. I enjoy having conversation with them. They go super deep.
     
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    silence, I struggle with speech. I try to say volumes in a few words but it comes out wrong so I settle for a hint of what I am trying to convey with the hope that someone out there understands me....pffft
     
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    Silence - in the verbal sense.

    I had a girlfriend, who is probably my soul-mate if such things exist.... anyhow she and i would study together, go walking together and have lunch together.. but we seldom spent much time talking. We simply enjoyed being in each other's company; and sometimes conversation would have been a distraction from our enjoyment of each other. We were so similar in many ways, that I knew what she would be thinking/feeling at most times and she likewise with me.
     
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