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[INFJ] As an INFJ Do You Enjoy Writing?

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I hear this is very common among INFJs. However, I never really gravitated towards it. Could this be due to and undeveloped Fe function? Should I begin writing with the idea that an undiscovered talent would surface at some point? I am an INFJ male and wonder if this has an effect too.
 
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I have a few published books, more articles, and I've loved writing since I was a kid.

PS: It never hurts to try writing. Give it a shot!
 
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Yes! I love writing! More than anything else ever in my life! I go into a trance and forget about everything except what I'm writing.

I have hardly any creative ideas since starting graduate school which completely sucks. I used to write every day but not anymore.

Why not try it if you want to? One of the most ridiculous things I ever hear about writing is people saying that it has to be done a certain way. There's this huge anxiety about doing it properly and not learning bad habits blah blah blah. Whatever. If you enjoy a practice, do it.
 
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My current journal reached its 10th anniversary in January of 2016. It's unusual for me not to write daily. In addition, I'm a lyricist and also enjoy writing fiction. I did set out to write a book a couple of times, but I didn't get past 30,000 words. I guess when I think of writing with the intention of sharing it, I go for shorter forms.
 
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I love to write I don't do it as much as I would like though I have notebooks full of crap I have written over the years this forum gives me a chance to write stuff that normally stays locked inside which is unfortunate for most of the members as @invisible said I can sink into a trance like state and stuff just oozes out if I try to force a topic or write with the intention of creating song lyrics poem or story I may as well just curl up in a ball and try to suck myself off also as @invisible mentioned rules can be a burden toss all self judgements and rules out the window and just write you can always go back and fix punctuation later
 
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I don't know if I enjoy "writing" so much as I enjoy communicating an idea. I like the thought of crafting words in a particular way that makes my brain happy, and I always hope others that read my stuff feel the same way.
I prefer fantasy over reality in a lot of cases, so I've absorbed a lot of ethereal concepts and I feel adept at regurgitating some form of the stuff, at least in a minimal fashion.
Mostly it is communication that excites me which is probably strongly linked to Fe. Exchanging ideas is super sexy. Writing makes it easier. Words are hard.
 
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Milktoast Bandit said:
I love to write I don't do it as much as I would like though I have notebooks full of crap I have written over the years this forum gives me a chance to write stuff that normally stays locked inside which is unfortunate for most of the members as @invisible said I can sink into a trance like state and stuff just oozes out if I try to force a topic or write with the intention of creating song lyrics poem or story I may as well just curl up in a ball and try to suck myself off also as @invisible mentioned rules can be a burden toss all self judgements and rules out the window and just write you can always go back and fix punctuation later
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Love this
 
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CindyLou said:
No one I know is allowed to read it.
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You don't know if it's "good" unless you share it. Everything I write is crap according to me. I've shared stuff with people and had surprising reactions. If people say it's "good" I just think they are lying or just being nice even if they have no reason to be. The inner critic is BRUTAL.
Even Maya Angelou had imposter syndrome.
 
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Wyote said:
You don't know if it's "good" unless you share it. Everything I write is crap according to me. I've shared stuff with people and had surprising reactions. If people say it's "good" I just think they are lying or just being nice even if they have no reason to be. The inner critic is BRUTAL.
Even Maya Angelou had imposter syndrome.
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*cringe*

I'm cringing just reading this. There is no way I could actually go through with having someone I know read it. So much cringe. I can't take it.
 
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i LOVE writing, but it doesn't love me.. HAHA.. i mostly write poems which are all garbage but it helps me clear my thoughts... i needed an outlet and sometimes painting is just not enough.. never hurts to try though..goodluck!

CindyLou said:
Nope! I'm not good at it either.

I've been blogging for about 15 years though. No one I know is allowed to read it.
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nyahaha same same! i have a blog, also a member in one of the writing apps.. but not even one in my family nor friends know it exists ;p

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I keep a diary. I'm not sure what the difference is between a diary and a journal other than the fact that the word "diary" sounds girly and gay. So I'll just say diary. It's mostly used as a way to ground myself. I use it to record my thoughts and goals. I want to become the ultimate survivalist. So I record thoughts about my archery practice, farming, and martial arts. I've noticed that if I take 15 minutes to write in my diary about what my goals are for the day and how I can improve on my technique, etc.. The rest of my day becomes more efficient and I actually save time. Writing has always been super important to me. But it's always served me best when it's an introverted thing.

I still need to get better at building primitive fires. One day I might do some major editing and turn my diary into a survival guide for tropical environments. But for now, it's just a good way to keep me efficient.
 
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Stillwater said:
Great feedback guys. Thanks. I'd love to hear more.

By the way, I could be wrong, but would you say it's common for folks that find it hard to convey their words through speaking lean towards
writing?
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For me it is.
I pause often while talking (-this drives everyone who knows me nuts).
I was incredibly shy and quiet as a kid, and I'm still fairly shy and get social anxiety. I can turn very non-confrontational and turn completely silent in arguments and debates, or when under extreme stress.
When having debates, in-depth discussions, and arguments (even at parties or work) I can go silent because I need to think about what I want to say. I don't like heated, intense debate.
If I write my thoughts down I 'say' exactly what I want. Since text arguing is rude, I find that writing about a topic helps me voice my opinion better next time the topic arises. I sometimes write essays about topics that interest me just for future reference.
 
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Stillwater said:
I hear this is very common among INFJs. However, I never really gravitated towards it. Could this be due to and undeveloped Fe function? Should I begin writing with the idea that an undiscovered talent would surface at some point? I am an INFJ male and wonder if this has an effect too.
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Why not just try and see where it goes ? It only has to be for you. I think writing and literature can be a great comfort to people. I bet you have some favorite books or poems? Once upon a time they were just an idea, until someone wrote them down, and had the courage to share them.
 
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I like writing and reading anything and everything that has a ring of authenticity to it. I used to love doing modern history exams at school as it was 3 hours of being totally in the zone where nothing else existed.

I especially like reading many of the writers on this forum. It's like listening to a perfectly played symphony when they get into the zone and express themselves with metaphors and analogies, wit and humour. You know who you are!
 
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