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Argument and broke Up with my INFJ (INTP)

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    That’s amazing! I’m glad that things are going well with you!

    It’s one step at a time. Keep investing in yourself and you’ll do great
     
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    I didn’t read too much, but I’ve come to the conclusion that he/she values his/her Facebook group than he/she does you.

    People have a difficult time reasoning about the logic that comes with evaluating one’s worth. So we make that shit more complicated than is really is with a bunch of words and fairytale concepts about love and life when it’s really all about your worth to each other.
     
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    Don’t date nerds that are completely out of touch with reality to this extent, and emotionally volatile on top of it. They will put Card Captor Sakura body pillows over you, every time.
     
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    Actually, I'm sure his reason for breaking up with me wasn't so shallow. (Not talking for a month and ignoring the couple and then letting them go is breaking up).

    However, he was always too contradictory. To put it mildly. But on several occasions he was practically in charge of making me see that I was not his priority in relationships, subtly. Sometimes I think that he just claimed that I was his priority when his brother died and requested my emotional support. One day I visited him I told him "in relationships you have to be clear, not everything is 'just get the flow'".

    What barbad0s is right about is that he was always very volatile. Even to talk to me again it was. But the basic problem of the relationship, from my perspective, is that I could never trust him 100%. Their escapist attitudes lasted almost the entire relationship.
     
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