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  • Think he might change with time? I think its possible for any human being with the right influences and of course inclination.
    I can't speak for your man or know what makes him tick, I'm new to this whole personality typology gig and with as technical as it is, not likely to become as well versed as other members of these forums are.

    If a woman has been with me for that long then she has gotten to know me pretty well and with my inquisitive nature I've been tryin to peel her onion apart from day one. Different for everyone I reckon, 20 months feels like such a long time though so I'd have to agree with you.
    Would it make you feel more comfortable in your relationship if he did? Or do you fear it would change what you cherish so much about it if he knew you completely?
    Heheh on that flip side I might get really paranoid, like playing through a scenario with having to spend time with your exact copy. I'm not necessarily saying they would be just like you in this, just that you both would share a level of comfort that neither would have to change to suit the other is all. I think in any relationship there has to be some sacrifice.

    I'm glad you have someone, life is too short without sharing your emotions with someone you feel close and open to on that level.
    :) Well relationships can have tradeoffs. I think when you truly love someone you try to make the situation as comfortable as possible for you partner without sacrificing too much of your natural tendencies. Optimally you would sacrifice nothing but I think a match like that is so very rare, at least I've never experienced one.
    Yeah those classes can get really expensive when buying the stuff you need, pretty much any art class is. Yeah I miss California even though it was hot as heck.
    I really like outdoor parties. Cause if its outdoors and I feel like I'm going to pass out, I can do so where nobody will find me and subject me to strange facial art. Social functions with alchohol can be fun, but if I'm feelin thirsty I can go on a bender for the night. Really tough to balance those things out sometimes.
    It goes that way for alot of fears/anxiety filled things. Took Mardi Gras and thousands of people I had to swim through on Bourbon Street to overcome my fear of crowds. Its like the more you immerse yourself in the things you fear yer able to thicken you skin some. Should always be done carefully though, negative experiences doing so will only worsen yer feelings on these things :(
    Yeah where I use to live (in southern California) it would get so hot in the summers, always over 115 most days if not every day. But now here in Utah the weather is so unpredictable, this evening it was windy and the air was really dirty so I'm guessing it will storm tonight, and this weekend the pools are supposed to open back up. Yeah I did buy a professional camera because I had taken a a photography class in the fall and needed one, they are so nice but yes expensive.
    I definitely get you there, standing up in front of an audience or a camera used to make my stomach turn cartwheels. Seems like drunken karaoke helped me with alot of that. I know when I was digging I got interviewed by a reporter for the local paper and put on two news programs where they had me speak at length. People always tell me I have a remarkable camera presence so it gives a little more confidence in similar situations now.
    That is true, having the full access of photoshop is really nice, I haven't touched it in forever though, I probably will once I start photographing once the weather stays decent.
    Ahh ok. Yes vitamin D is very important to a good healthy mind. High school is a place you have to be, I guess some people find it easier to socialize there than others. I can't say why it doesn't translate well outside of that environment, college was similar to me I guess. I didn't stay very long but I had a few friends I'd meet around campus and shoot the bull n such. Hearing ESCAPE RUN AWAY fairly often in my head made me want to get the hell away from everything heh.
    Just remember that the act of tanning can age your skin prematurely so be careful! I was always the apocalyptic loner in school. Some strange tome in hand and head in the clouds. No friends.
    I hear yah. Always nice to have a partner in crime to go out and experience the world with. Lately I think I've developed way too much experience being a hermit, the concept of going out just appeals less and less to me ><

    This message system is strange, having to click a link on my wall instead of just replying keep making me create double messages ><
    That isn't necessarily a bad thing in regards to the online part. In the world I have a difficult time opening up to people, here I don't have any of those reservations. Sure it would be nice to have more friends I could easily talk to in the world as I do on here, but due to the aforementioned difficulties I don't see it happening.
    Like anywhere else I reckon there are the good and the bad. I always hope to meet the best a geographic region has to offer but seldom do we get a choice on who we meet. This venue is so nice cause we got a choice though it seems like just about anyone here is a good choice to talk to heheh.
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