Recent content by Yvonne Larkin

Thank you. I’ll be mindful in the future, too.

But could any of this JUST be friendly? I can’t imagine him stepping in, really. They’re best friends. He’d never risk it.

my s/o is very logical and I am much abstract. We are opposites which works really well except in this area. My s/o knows how I feel. None of this is news to him. I don’t see the friend often which makes it easier. But on that note, I’ve gotten to know him over the years and the red flags are...

it tends to go that way friendship wise too? That spark could be one sided! I could be assuming and shouldn’t.

It can’t be cut completely - on my part I’ve maintained no contact.

That does break my heart if he feels that way. I hope that isn’t the case and that I’m wrong about it all. But clear boundaries until further notice.

that's amazing

If anyone needs an ENFP friend, I’m yours.

Preach. You are so right. It's so important, and every other thing takes priority. The state of the world doesn't help, either.

And I love to play. I need mental stimulation, like a border collie. I am often lost in the clouds (all up in the crown) thinking about everything and anything - very meta. Mind goes quicker than I can talk. If something happens, I tend to believe the most obvious is established and look at the...

I am sure that's on his mind... and I appreciate it.

What does "going a bit insane" look like with an INFJ? I know what it looks like with an ENFP LOL Sigh... thank you :( we don't stay in touch outside of gatherings, so I will continue to do what I am doing and go inwards to think on all of the great advice.

Oh my husband and I have things to work on, but he's my person. When i picture getting old it is with him, but I do wish I had a stronger emotional component to it, which is hard. We are so in sync otherwise and I knew it from the moment we met. I have talked a little bit to my husband (not the...

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I guess it's technically an emotional affair, because we connect on an emotional level, but we tend to keep our distance otherwise. When we talk I am careful not to discuss personal things with him re: my husband, nor does he ask. I'd never tell him...

Hello all - I am so well aware that this topic has been beaten to death, but I do need some guidance. I have connected with an INFJ male. Over the years we have developed such a wonderful relationship that includes all night conversations (a lot of them, at times nightly) about anything and...