Recent content by XPD154

This is why I'm an "I".

And I have to stick around and be talked to this way because...?

No, it's just as usual, I open up to a new group, I'm nice, I try to keep the talking points relevant but engaging and I just get publicly embarrassed and called out. I didn't do anything. It wasn't called for.

I'm sorry, but if we're not going to talk about this kind of stuff then, why are we here? I'm sitting here, opening up, and having a good time, and someone has to come along and make me feel bad like I said or did something wrong. Again, is this not the essence of this forum? Look, I'm not...

"I am what I am. I'll do what I want."

So, there's a video on YouTube talking about the Spark that happens between an INFJ and an INTJ when they meet and it's like two aliens stranded on Earth making contact for the first time. Honestly, that's how I've always tried to articulate to people about what my ideal relationship would be...

Lol, alrighty then.

I would agree with you on certain points but our empathy scores being off the charts clearly sets us apart. I have an autistic friend and I have been accused of being autistic by a few people. I think we're just so alien to the general population that they don't know what to label us...

Do you think we like being around ISTP's, particularly Enneagram type 5's because they make a point about not feeling anything. Yeah it's annoying and their distance and coldness can offend us, but only the other hand, is it not - peaceful? Like we don't have to do an emotional detox and...

Well, I told him I was writing about him on here and how all these INFJ's were eating it up like candy. I assured him I was keeping it discreet. I told him, "Try not to puke, but here's what I wrote..." We both couldn't look each other in the eye and just walked off in opposite directions. It’s...

That's what I've always said. I don't want to look or act like these people!

You're right. Shake the dust of that place off your feet. Get away from them. Honestly, I'm going through the same thing. My friend is the only thing that keeps me sane there. I have to focus on him or my favorite show or I'll go crazy. When we had our falling out, I was going to quit because of...

I'm so glad you said that. There's a Bible verse that says, "Better is open rebuke than hidden love." Don't let these other people infect you with nastiness.

Guys, I get it. I do. But: I can't help how I feel. I know y'all can understand and sense that. I understand I'm not going to get everything I need or want from most of my relationships in life. I learned that long ago from relatives. I want to make those sacrifices for him. I want to use him...

You're right of course, but in the meantime I'm deep diving head first into his soul and I'll be literally doing it when I take him skydiving so I can bond with him doing manly, action based activities that he's interested in. Am I taking care of myself by jumping out of a perfectly good...