Recent content by Xavier

You know, it's good to hear that. Thanks. I feel a little bit more comfortable now. I am growing less concerned with finding out my type (order of preference and all that), but I still want to figure out if I use my Ni or Ne more, or if I use my Fi or Fe more. It's interesting stuff...

Yeah I know it doesn't have to be exact, but I still want to find out if I'm more one than another.

Because not everything adds up. Some things Arbygil said line up with things that I was thinking, and it contradicts some things. I may be more introverted and intuitive as apposed to introverted and sensory, but I I don't know if I'm more Ni or Ne. There's a lot I feel like I don't know...

I agree completely. I have definitely been taking the information and analyzing it, but because these things are so unclear, I am looking for help from others. It's safe to say that I wouldn't just take your word for something. I would need to actually believe it myself.

Yes...maybe...yes. I'm not really sure. I'll get back to you on that.

Haha... Nice. One quick note: I don't have the need to make everything perfectly strait or organized. There are very specific things. When I do try to relax (usually unsuccessfully), I have to make absolutely certain that the faucets are off and the door is locked. Also, in order for me to...

Arbygil, you've been very helpful. I just want you to know that I appreciate you helping me with this. So, did you read my last post? It was a reply to your other one, and I mentioned a lot of this stuff. This sounds a lot like me by the way...both shadow processes, especially INFJ...

Thank you Arbygil, You're right that I probably do have OCD. I obsess over one thing and then I don' pay as much attention to other things. Whether I use more sensory or intuiting seems to depend on what that one thing is. Also, I've noticed that I often think about what others have said...

Stories - I usually make up characters first, then figure out how I want them to interact with each other, and what their roles will be. Will they have frequent conflicts? Will one of them be the antagonist? The actual concrete events of the story usually come last. Do I focus exclusively on...

Please do. Seriously. I really....really want to hear it.

That is interesting. You know...I think I may have more to say, but I really do need to make the practical decision and work at my school even though the quest to find out what I am seems to be my focus right now. If I find the time, I'll try to explain more about my thought process and how it...

I know. I know... :m119:

I looked at that site. So difficult to tell though. As far as what comes natural...that's hard too because there is a lot I don't remember. I don't remember if I did more feeling or thinking. As a child, I was meticulous, and a perfectionist. I would do things very intentionally and...

What I want is a firm yes or no, but I have to believe the yes or no is correct. If someone said I was definitely an extremely social person (which I definitely don't believe), I would keep searching because I wouldn't believe it.

I saw that thread, but it's still a little unclear. One thought I had was that I fit mostly into INFP, but I also have ISFJ tendencies, which seems like a very odd mix. I need to find out more.