Recent content by wonderer12

You say you trust this girl... but you still express fear. It sounds to me like, really, you think it's legitimate to trust her-- that that is logical and reasonable to do so-- but that you aren't really feeling it. Classic rational-vs-emotional split. Or maybe you're trying to fool yourself...

Honestly, I'm not sure I buy this idea that attractive people are predestined to be more outgoing. I know some rather ordinary people who are quite extroverted and some really gorgeous people who are much harder to get to. I think your E vs. I ratio is shaped partially by genetics, and also by...

Mmm... I'm good. The school year is pretty much over now. I can finally breathe! Are you starting preparations for college?

I don't feel that a person who defaults to submissiveness is a person I want to have any sort of long term relationship with. Aside from whether it's attractive or not, it's very important to me that the people I trust are able to stand up for themselves, their rights, and what they believe in...

I am both introverted and shy. I'm a lot better at dealing with my shyness than I used to be (it was really bad until a couple years ago. I had trouble even ordering a sandwich at Subway), but large crowds and new people still trouble me a great deal. I have a really hard time just walking up...

Hi, how's it going?

Yes, I do worry about being a burden to others... I am constantly looking out for a way I can be less instrusive. I don't really doubt that I deserve love. But I doubt that I will ever find someone who will be willing to commit to me, because, after all what's there about me to love that...

According to me, a loyal person will try his/her best to ensure the well being of his/her loved one(s). It's a consideration thing. The reason I feel this definition is valid is because it provides for some much-needed wiggle room-- abiding my someone's wishes (which seems to be the universal...

Convictions are something I have always held dear, for in a way they are what make us who we are. But more often than not, the convictions I have are so contrary to the norm. I am perfectly capable of saying no to things I feel uncomfortable with, but afterwards, I always feel as if something is...

This is so true. The smallest thing you do can impact more people than you can imagine-- and the impact can be good or bad. Of course we're all going to make bad ripples sometimes, but I feel it is our civic responsibility to try and outweigh them with good ripples.

Hello! It seems my message board has begun working of its own accord.

Some would say that there is no such thing as intuition. The thing we humans call "intuition" is really our minds working at their most secretive level, processing information more quickly than-- and completely unbeknownst to-- our conscious minds. However, this relates only indirectly to the...