Recent content by WickedPod

At the risk of seeming rude or getting the guy to think you're a witch, I think you need to stop reciprocating. I've been sexually harrassed by much older men at my jobs, as well as men my age. I've a very nice person and try my best to never be rude to others. However, at some point you...

I think that women can be pigs and men can be gentlemen. It depends on the person and the situation. I can be a pig - if I see a dude I find attractive in a sexual way, yes, I will imagine dirty things. I don't imagine future children - I only imagine the process. If I go out and I'm wearing...

In no particular order: Stand By Me Tombstone Labyrinth Terminator 2 All Clint Eastwood movies, except "Every Which Way But Loose" & "Any Which Way You Can" Dead Poets Society Pulp Fiction Shawshank Redemption A Bronx Tale Goodfellas Deliverance Young Guns 2 Swing Kids OK - that's my baker's...

If you're attracted to her, then just leave yourself open to the possibility that it's genuine. If it isn't, you didn't necessarily act on it so you won't embarrass yourself. I'm sure you don't mind the positive attention - we all enjoy that. Don't take it too seriously and just let stuff...

I got benefactor, which is pretty spot-on for me.

I also feel most alone with I'm in a situation like that, even being around so many people. I see clubs MOSTLY as where people go to be seen, get laid, or just feel as if they are being social. I know that there are people out there that actually go just for fun or to meet new ppl without...

I agree with what most are saying. You have to change your perspective. I used to think the same way you do. Then, I realized that there really are caring, kind, good, loving people in the world. If you think everything sucks, then you're only going to see what does suck. It's just as...

Loner - That's great that you love your friends that way. Everyone should and I think that's where a lot of people have trouble in friendships. The descriptions of what love isn't from Corinthians is right-on in any relationship and I wish more people would realize that. But, you might find...

74 - I definitely agree it takes two to have a positive arguing style. My late boyfriend would never, ever argue. He felt that disagreeing was not necessary. I always would tell him that he needs to stand up for himself and his POV adn he never would. It drove me nuts! My ex-fiance always...

Yes. I know this from first-hand experience with my husband, myself (but only for 3 months at a time), and some of our friends. If you're allowing it to harm your real life relationships b/c you can't seem to stop, then I personally see it as an addiction.

Tovlo - I fully agree with everything you said. Every single one of us has free will. This boy is 13 and old enough to know what he wants. These people aren't hurting anyone and if their religious beliefs are so that chemotherapy would make them compromise those beliefs, then that's a major...

I've tried visualization and I've tried the affirmations. Neither worked, nor did they last very long. I felt like Stewart Smalley from SNL with those affirmations. I used to be the biggest kill-joy, pessimistic cynic this side of the world. I was a drag to be around, but didn't realize it...

I love the way you've put this. This is very much the way I feel. Tho, I tend to get so frustrated with those you described in the first part of this and that is something I'm trying very hard to work on. I don't like wasting my energy like that.

That's exactly how I am after a breakup. I've never been in one of those "off again, on again" relationships. If I'm going to break up with you, it's for a very good reason that means we have no business being together. I keep that tucked away, so that if I see that my feelings for them start...

I definitely agree with every single thing you just said. My personal defense, however, is that I haven't shown myself to be discriminatory at all to warrant having that thrown in my face - which you haven't, at all. My argument is most definintely not with you, since I totally agree with you...