Recent content by WaterOx

Certainly INFJs don't hold a monopoly on this but as to whether they are predisposed to being "dark" I have to say yes. I'm not sure there's any way around that with lead Ni. How we deal with that and what we get out of it as well as our unique life story all depends on that, naturally.

Not having any friends? Not bad actually. It's by choice, or at least I like to think so :)

Well if you are inclined to go in depth then you're liable to get dark. That only makese sense, right?

I can think back to high school where my best friend always said I never wanted to introduce him to my other friends. In other words I wouldn't "mix" them. I guess somehow I always knew I could hang with any of them but they all couldn't hang with one another. Come to think on it, maybe that's...

They say men want things solved while women just want to be heard and understood. I almost never want someone to solve something for me and almost always want to be heard and understood.

I read that infjs are the least likely to be satisfied in them. I sure can relate. Im probably older than most here and I've Never been married, no kids and in fact have never had a relationship past 6 months. I often feel pretty weird but the crazy thing is it's become so normal. How...

Also, I'm not a fan of those times that says you should be happy when you aren't necessarily so. It puts a lot of stress on people,to be fake. Then if you're not happy they aren't happy, making me unhappy. What a waste of time and energy.

Christmas itself doesn't bug me too much. I just don't like having to travel to see my family- and it's never been the whole family. It's always one person or another. Christmas is just a big fat reminder of how things that should be nice are actually fucked up broken and dysfunctional. Add...

Man that sounds like something I need to do. lol!

My family was a broken home since I was about 6. Since then all I can recall is that no one wants to speak to each other but everyone wants to speak and get along with me. I guess it's a true testimony to an Fe person trying to hold everyone but himself together. Honestly sometimes I feel...

Yeah I was just playing around :) Well sorta! The truth is I was unaware of Se properties until I did some more reading since this thread. It would seem it's Se that triggers an infjs "perfectionistic streak". This is what you were saying, as far as I recall, that it is Se that has little...

You write very much like an infp. Have people told you that before?

Ok sooooo anytime I ever use Se it's in direct relation to my Ti? I'm doomed to correa graph my inner thinking world? Like interpretive dance?

So in other words they do interact.

Ti and Ni don't interact? I don't understand.