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  1. Venom

    Career Search

    We sound somewhat similar. I even have a thread of my own on here :(... I was where you seem to be once. Now I'm struggling with the "you can't have everything" stage. I grew up rich, so this has been difficult. If you want to make a lot of money you're looking at finance, sexy tech job (NOT...
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    Dream interpretation help?

    Haha. I wasn't insinuating that you were insinuating that I should quit :). Don't worry, I'm not going to do anyhing rash. I do appreciate the help on the interpretation. I guess I better get used to this dream ...
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    Dream interpretation help?

    In my dreams I don't die. I'm always afraid of death in my dreams. I'll be yelling at people "we could DIE people!? Why are we wasting our time risking death!" and I'll be wondering "why am I not wearing a helmet or body armor!? I have to get out of here or I could die within the first 30...
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    Dream interpretation help?

    I keep having a "recurring dream" (different dream aesthetically, but it feels like the same type of dream). My waking recollection is that I'm at boot camp, barracks or a base. The dream then quickly advances to that of being sent to war, against my will. The dream has a sense of futility, that...
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    Escaping the careers my enneagram 3 parents drive me towards?

    Thanks for the reply. ESFJ mom: her dad was a HS teacher and she definitely resents the fact that he would be "home all the time" and yet they "felt poor" as if he owed the family more or something. She somehow developed all of these expensive tastes from *that* upbringing! (walking...
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    Escaping the careers my enneagram 3 parents drive me towards?

    I have enneagram 3s as parents (ESFJ and ISTP). They view it as a logical succession: they were "successful", I'm "smart enough", and they have "invested so much to prepare me" that any complaining about corporate America is just laziness rather than it not actually fitting me. They swear I'll...
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    Intuitives need not apply

    Could not have said it better! I love how INFJs have that ability/drive to just "sum it all up" and strip away the pretentiousness. I still think the biggest issue for me though is that while I recognize that it's modern slavery, everyone else just accepts it. The worst are the people who...
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    Intuitives need not apply

    Could have fooled me ... :D ... Very predictable in their environmental response ...
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    Intuitives need not apply

    Im a business analyst (ie management consultant), and I can verify that it's xSTJ heaven. What I've learned about real world service oriented business is that the game is simply salesmen at the top, and drones at the bottom who mine enough data to cover the salesman's asses. Intuition really...