Recent content by uzbirn

Your worst quality is. . . stubbornness. This muleheadedness will prevent you from growing and improving your personality. If you refuse to consider the viewpoints of others, you will never understand others and you will never correct wrong opinions and attitudes. Is that really how you want it...

I think the issue with debate and the exercise of logos as common ground for dialogue is that not only requires a privileged socialization educational track from back in childhood (and not completely dependent on school curriculum but any life experience), but also that the subjects involved...

For some months I've been feeling like I definitely gave up on looking for any new people into my personal life. I don't really care being alone but just another productive tool of the system or whatever, but I write this thread with another concern in my mind. I'm not sure where to draw a...

I've barely read some mentions of Dr Phil online and I've never seen it on local TV here, so I don't know well his show. But yes, that's a way of gradually leading the kid to figure out he can choose for himself changing into what you want them to do (and further on time, to figure why it was a...

I'm prone to think parents who spank or intimidate their children try to exert too much control on kids decisions. I don't think the motivations for doing so are any worth the means, especially when I consider those kids will grow and be thrown to control their own lives by their own will. I'm...

Not a big deal to you or me, but I want to know why is it seen negatively for some others, especially those who're insecure or naive and pretend not caring about it. Sometimes I think it's all down to what have we grown accustomed to value more (which is not something you could ask others to...

Have you been single for a long time (say, at least 5 years)? Do you think it has affected you in comparison with someone else who got another partner without being single for too long? Also, if you got again into dating, do you think it affects? Like, does your potential partner raise...

Hey, I'm just not sure where to talk about this. I can't trust many people in my life, so I'd rather go for this in a forum board of INFJs, since I can notice some tendency to empathy here, indeed. If it may come to some as too much of a rant, I'm sorry in advance about it. It took me years to...

I can relate to the idea some controlling individuals may see an "opportunity" in emotionally vulnerable individuals, coming up as faux saviors. Also, I think every human being I've known deep enough (including me) has a bit of that component, as well as the possibility of being in both the...