Recent content by undfined

46. I'm the more laid back parent. Peanut butter sandwhiches it is, even after the "he needs more fruits and veggies" lectures I'm familiar with. I'd rather parent as a partner, too.

*Raises hand* Faithful for 20 years. Or at least I have been. I voted leave, but it really does depend on the circumstance. I've had the conversation about my spouse getting it on with another girl when she was 18. She told me a day or two after it happened, sort of. I thought they just...

Yes and no. As priorities change needs shift and what we once thought was necessary becomes just another thing that no longer has the same meaning. We reason ourselves out of giving ourselves. We forget that just because something seems watered down or redundant doesn't actually mean it is...

If something were to happen to my wife I think the only way I could seriously relate to another woman is if she were also a parent. She would need to develop a positive relationship to my kids as well. Hah - what a difference a decade makes. In your 20s it's a no-brainer to say "no way!"

I used to get, what I was taught to call "deja vu," all the time. But I wouldn't call the 2 experiences "similar." I would have a dream and at some point in my waking life the dream would be reality. The exact same. Every scenic detail, word spoken, and feeling was there for a second time...

I spent years playing in metal, punk, and other alternative bands, thriving in the counter-culture with my black hoodies and Doc Martens. I wouldn't limit "darkness" to any one personality type, but would say that one is more likely to find Intuitive types in the types of cliques I think you...

Closer to my mom growing up. Now definitely closer to my dad, as we work together. I couldn't have done that until I matured both as a son and a parent. When I fled the nest at 19 I abandoned it. I wanted nothing to do with them, as I felt controlled. I still get that feeling sometimes but...