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Recent content by Undercaffeinated INFJ

  1. Undercaffeinated INFJ

    Waiting to have sex

    I agree. I believe (unless for religious reasons) if a relationship isn’t intimate enough to the point where sex is also part of the picture then it’s not TRULY a relationship... then it really is just like a friendship.
  2. Undercaffeinated INFJ

    Waiting to have sex

    I’ve been in relationships where we had sex quite early on (like within the first week of becoming interested in one another)... then as weeks and months went by, we started to find out we weren’t really all that compatible as far as our values, personalities, interests, etc. ... but because the...
  3. Undercaffeinated INFJ

    Does knowing that you “fit in” a personality type actually makes you feel better?

    My husband and I were recently in marital counseling and she turned out to be an INFJ! Lol! Then I started to feel like knowing she and I were both INFJ, she was able to relate to me better and my husband felt like he was at a disadvantage in the counseling so we stopped counseling with her...
  4. Undercaffeinated INFJ

    Does knowing that you “fit in” a personality type actually makes you feel better?

    When I found out I was an INFJ, it really helped me to realize that I’m not so weird. It helped me realize I was just different. It helped me realize people function differently and that’s why I could interact with some people more easily than with others.
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    INFJs, why would you friendzone someone?

    A lot of people have pretty much said what I thought when reading this... but it seemed like certain actions of his that you interpreted as him being interested, was just him being an INFJ. Like, how he remembered you when he saw certain pictures, how he remembered certain details about you, how...
  6. Undercaffeinated INFJ

    How do you find good friends and relationships if you can't be bothered about socializing?

    That’s good! I definitely would choose to stay home and binge on good shows vs. going out... then I started to realize that my family/friends stopped reaching out because they were just so used to me rejecting their offers to hang out. I started to realize that wasn’t necessarily fair of me to...
  7. Undercaffeinated INFJ

    Corona / Wuhan virus

    Jealous!!! Let’s trade! :tearsofjoy: I’m a speech pathologist so it would be hard to do what I do from home, so we still have to come to work. When do you guys go back?
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    How do you find good friends and relationships if you can't be bothered about socializing?

    I read something once (although I can’t remember where)... and it said something along the lines of... you just HAVE to force yourself to socialize. There is nothing wrong with being an introvert but being TOO introvert is not a good thing. You have to force yourself to schedule a dose of...
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    Corona / Wuhan virus

    Some memes I thought you’d all enjoy
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    Corona / Wuhan virus

    I still had to work today :sorrowful:
  11. Undercaffeinated INFJ

    Your forum buddy awaits

    Me! I need a forum buddy of same gender though, please (a lady). Don’t want my husband thinking I’m having a fling.