Recent content by Triedandtrue

Hey guys! So I'm back. So basically over the past week we really talk things out and got past the whole breakup situation. She felt a lot of pressure in the beginning whenever I wanted to get back with her because she was uneasy but then I just said hey I'm going to be friends I'm putting myself...

She is hesitant about me coming to see her because she feels vulnerable and doesn't trust me or there's trust issues so I think she just doesn't have trust in me and it takes time to build and so she wants space so she can just process things so I told her cool I'll just give you space but I...

She is hesitant about me coming to see her because she feels vulnerable and doesn't trust me or there's trust issues so I think she just doesn't have trust in me and it takes time to build and so she wants space so she can just process things so I told her cool I'll just give you space but I...

Yeah she definitely felt abandoned and I think as a infj that really affects their view on life and goals and things that make them unique. It really shook her foundation and is very traumatizing so I think the best thing for me to do is just be her friend and maybe in the future if everything...

Yes she did feel abandoned. She did feel hurt and she felt like I just left her and she didn't know why. Now I understand why she is so hesitant and gets anxiety whenever I say hey let's make a decision now on getting back together or separating. It is based on her anxiety on me doing it again...

Yes so true! Focus on the now and maybe it will start to crystallize and seem more achievable in getting back together.

Also do INFJs ever change their mind on taking back somebody once their Mind Is Made. How long does it take for a infj to make up their mind on a relationship whether they should rekindle it or let it go after a breakup.

What do you mean by positive manifest and confidence line set. Will that approach work with INFJs. Also what is your Myers-Briggs and what would convince you to get back together if someone broke up with you.

How did you guys go about reconnecting and making the relationship work after the break up. Also what are your Myers-Briggs. And what is a good thing to do after you guys broke up. How long were you guys broken up for and did you guys do no contact in order to give each other space and how long...

How do I go about the conversation about mending the past and looking towards the future. I know INFJs are very introverted so it's hard for me to get a read on her but how do I have a real conversation with her and just say I would love to men the past and build upon the future. Should I write...

Do you think I should map out something to say to her. I know infjs process things differently so I would have to speak in a way that she will understand for example if I were to just talk about the past only it would hurt and bring up bad memories but if I just say hey I'm really sorry about...

Thank you so much for this post and forreally breaking down how to go about reconciliation. The reason why she didn't want to move to California was because of her family in Florida. Right now she does text me everyday but only after I text her and she does call and we try to talk at least once...

Yes I have two threads going on I'm so sorry about that I just got too nervous and sad and depressed and worried. ENFP here sorry guys

Yes you are thank you so much for your advice I love that it's a Saturday night and you are on this forum helping people out like myself. That means a lot. I'm in ENFP so I am definitely grateful for you all in this world.

Well I tried to find a job out there to move out there to be with her but I couldn't and I would always ask her to take the pharmacy license test so she can move out to California but I know that that wasn't originally what we agreed on because in the beginning of our relationship before we...