Recent content by TechnocolorJET

I was a drop out. Most of my school career was a fight to go or get work done. I hated homework. My home time should be mine. It is my biggest regret now not getting everything I could squeeze out of it. I love learning. Wasn't till I had kids that I understood doing things I don't want to do. I...

If humanity were a t-shirt, INFJ would be the tag. We know what everyone is made of, how to care for them, and that we are different.

I think it will sell itself in a generation or two. People won't just sit at home and do nothing. They will add to productivity in ways that will flourish and this stale way will finally be remodeled here. Kids are smart. They will see what is working. I'm glad that they are doing studies to...

I can see grudges against ideas. Entitlement or arrogance come to mind. Everyone can take these traits on even briefly and I will get defensive. Its like hating the demon that possesses instead of the individual.

Its the bricks my walls are made of

Well, I talk about and reference myself often because it is what I know. And kind of self centered but my whole life has been nothing but to understand my part in it. I don't think it is out of bad intent. Intj people are amazing. Not someone that you are likely to forget or would want to...

The ratio of blue eyes doesn't come close to what you see on screen. They are way over represented.

I've described myself as a conjunction connecting people. I use to think it was common and I don't know what to believe now.

No. Not like this. I have said much of this in some way but not exactly like this. I know that he loves me. I know that I'm isolated so my social needs are way out of wack. I don't want to hurt him. I just keep digging trying to find "the solution". Insecurity has been a life long issue with...

I'm struggling with my infp husband. He needs so much alone time and never opens up. We don't talk. Both of our love languages are quality time. But I know in my gut he wants to be the single man. He hates being tethered to anything and I resent that he told me he wanted a family and to be a...

You can change yourself and lead by example. Get active in your community. Others will change when they are too uncomfortable. So if that happens you need to be able to sell the idea of happiness without lavish. Invite people to come together for fun. Being close with someone going through...

I I was in a romantic relationship with my best friend for 6 years. It was beautiful and full of love and connection that was unlike any other. We had this understanding (unknown to us that we are infj at the time) like knowing yourself. It was difficult to end the romance but we are still...