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    Has the field of psychology failed men?

    There are few honest research on this topic and the situation will not improve in the near future. The reason is social justice mob who have taken over the institutions. Basically you can only publish something when you blame the patriarchy, otherwise it will damage your career.
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    Has the field of psychology failed men?

    This is how it looks like in 2023. But yeah, tell that boy to pump more testosterone. Desideria (Desi) Mesa on Twitter: "Three days ago, a 15-yr old boy had an anxiety attack in the school bathroom to hide from his bullies and struggling grades. His “guidance” counselor pulled him into a room...
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    Has the field of psychology failed men?

    To put it short - yes. Facts speak for themselves. Educational system is also failing men considerably.
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    "Modern" Relationships

    Zooming out, open relationships had been the norm for most of human history (last 100k years) in hunter gatherer societies. Lifelong monogamy is the newest kid on the block starting out 10k years ago after transitioning to agriculture. The driving factor here was that males could pass their...
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    Men Inequality: are men falling behind in society?

    Found this somewhere, pre-meetoo era. Should be updated now I guess. Suppose we raised our baby girls to believe that if they are hurt, they shouldn't cry because nobody would care. Suppose we also told them they would be seen as worthless failures for showing any vulnerability. Suppose we...
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    Men Inequality: are men falling behind in society?

    I find it amusing that a woman in her twenties is lecturing a man in his forties about how men's instincts work. So let's leave it that :)
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    Men Inequality: are men falling behind in society?

    You can't discover gender by introspection - it can only be defined in a relationship with other people. That's why all those made up genders like xe/xir make no sense as others cannot relate to them in a meaningful way. If you identify as agender it means you're not connected to others.
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    Men Inequality: are men falling behind in society?

    I don't think there is an instinct to protect women - it's all social conditioning. Otherwise there would be no rape, abuse and murder of women. There's plenty of men out there who don't give a shit about hurting them. There is an instinct however to protect one's biological children. The only...
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    Men Inequality: are men falling behind in society?

    The ability to form social support networks is a survival strategy for women. You know, in case their husband dies in a conflict, runs away or is just a derelict tool. It is not directly related to a contract between sexes. As for "control how and when you have children" part - that's where we...
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    Men Inequality: are men falling behind in society?

    An interesting take but it's only half of the equation. The other half is: what do women bring to the table? The social contract over thousands of years was: women provide babies, men provide resources and security. However lately this has changed. There is no longer an expectation for women to...
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    Men Inequality: are men falling behind in society?

    It saddens me to notice that even infjs community is succumbing to gender ideology. Anyway... the opening question is misleading. Men cannot fall behind the society because they make up half of it. If their objective performance is declining, it means the society itself is declining. It's...
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    It's supposedly Constitutional, BUT

    Sanity has prevailed in the end. If Trump was charged on flimsy grounds it would have increased the divide and gave fuel to conspiracy theorists for decades. Now he can just quietly fade away from public memory. And all the news channels has just found themselves out of business - that's a real win.
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    Dank Memes VS Wallstreet

    As someone who is familiar of how stock market actually works, I can assure you these funds are not going to bankrupt anywhere soon. They have excellent risk management and their losses are only virtual. GME stock price must go up to a 1000 USD at least to pose liquidation threat to them...
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    Adjectives for the Biden Administration today

    The words "fake" and "weak" come to mind. Fake does not imply election rigging but rather that people did not vote for Biden. They voted against Trump and it did not matter who his opponent was. The same with Harris - she got the job because of her gender and skin color, not because she was...
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    There is no such thing as capitalism.

    Capitalism and other social organizational systems do not exist as things but they do exist as ideas. Like family, justice and other social constructs. Objective measurement is a big problem actually. For example wages earned and GDP: we get a sense that they are constantly on the rise but if...