In a relationship, communication is everything. Even if both people are extremely introverted and shy.
If someone I loved suddenly stopped talking to me for a long time without explaining why then I would get really upset. I would worry I did something wrong to upset you or you are beginning...
Here is my perspective as an INTJ.
We don’t like wasting our time with insignificant people. We only have a few contacts and the few that are are very dear to us. Since you two have been at it a decade it’s pretty clear he is serious about you.
But in typical INTJ fashion we tend to over...