Recent content by sparko

sorry elf i just realised that i'm probably trying to say largely the same thing as you. sorry i should have read your post more carefully.

i'm not sure that children are qualified to decide what is fair or unfair. a child might feel that she has been unfairly treated if she has been denied an unreasonable request. and i think it's important to recognise and come to terms with our own feelings of being unfairly treated. the world is...

people do think i have a disorder for needing so much time alone! either that or they take it personally and accuse me of not caring enough to make time for them. (with the result that i care slightly less for them...)

1) The cube the cube is much larger than me and suspended in midair some distance above the ground. i am standing not far from it at all, within its immediate vicinity. in a sense the cube is completely transparent as the sky is visible through it but it is also opaque in the sense of being a...

writing a paper on villette! i always find recommended critical readings so difficult to get through but the more of them i read and the more i think about the novel the more i think i like it. i had been saving it to read after shirley and it was worth it. until i was at least halfway through...

well for a start, this person has already given you some feedback about why there is distance between you. i develop friendships very slowly and i get resentful if people force intimacy on me and demand that i have a closer friendship with them. just get to know her, listen to what she has to...

overload! too many questions! lol i judge people a lot! i judge people all differently! i become enraged towards certain classes of abusers, and in the past i have felt compelled to tell them directly that i hate them and don't want them in my life, but these days i just try and get to know...

i don't know if it is an INFJ thing but i feel this way too if that is reassuring. i don't think it's going to go away though. i have never stopped looking for an authentic self. i keep telling myself that it doesn't matter as there is no such thing as authentic self. it doesn't necessarily make...

i think millions of people DO matter. even just a few million. maybe a much smaller number of people than that would matter to me also. regardless of their intelligence - a matter on which i'm not certain that aids discriminates, either.