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If you are right about what you have, I guess I could be jealous to some level. The funny thing is, I had never thought I was a "planning" type of people until I moved abroad and found out planning ahead is actually one of the means to survive. Then I applied this rule across the board in my...

Self-fulfilment has many forms. If to love others is a way to achieve self-fulfilment, it is after all a form of self-love. That's my thought.

How did you do that... Very cool! :)

Years ago, I found a path to understand why things had happened the way they had over years. So much gratefulness for life and for me being me... Since then, it became my belief that things happen in life for a reason. Now I'm looking for that reason again.

Thank you for the recommendation!

I think that well said about my fear and my hesitation at this moment. I brought a life to this world and that becomes my highest responsibility for years to come... I certainly can stretch myself, but I know I don't take stress well and I would feel horrible if he doesn't get what he's suppose...

Well, I guess I regard my family part of me and my own life. You are right, it might not be a fair view...

Agree! We may not have everything we want, but we always have at this moment lots things/people to love. And as I said, anything is possible and make the most out of it~

Cheer up, dude! Life is long and full of possibilities...

That's what I would need to work on - to rein it properly...

Good tips, as always, muir~ :)

Thank you! I probably also have trouble to distance myself from people at work at a personal level. I see them as individuals like myself, coming from a route and search for what makes them fulfilled. In that way, I often have hard time to do things affecting them in a way that I wouldn't want...

I see what you mean here. It might happen in certain cases, but not always. As I explained in the previous reply, it's more like information overload and distractions. I often feel, unless it's really necessary, otherwise if I take a step back (sacrific my interest a bit) could mean less hurting...

What do you mean? Can you explain further?