Recent content by Somasoma

How are the dynamics between you are your colleagues at your workplace? I've only been with my current company for three months. My office has a very 'wall-less' and open environment. Everybody sits around tables not cubicles (I sit right next to my direct superior!). Am an introvert and...

I completely relate to how you feel sometimes. Sometimes I feel it is more of a misalignment of expectations; loving someone that you shouldn't (ending up feeling that you don't deserve to have it reciprocated). Fundamentally it's all about a lack of love for yourself, which isn't a good thing.

Ok, lets face it. In the world we are living in, an attractive male would be associated with extroverted traits such confidence, boldness and being outspoken. As a result of this 'alpha' male expectation, introverts like us end up finding it more difficult to 'score' the girl we are interested...

Haha I think it's sad that all our advice comes from alcohol and cigarettes. I use them alot too. Unfortunately for me, I'll be attending a Christmas party this Friday, organised by the company I'll work with next year. There will be a afternoon and evening event and an 'after evening' event...

I got this problem too, I couldn't decided whether I was a Ti or a Fe. There was a period of time when I thought that I was a Ti just because I was surrounded by too many extroverted Fe friends and I stood out by being more logical, and rational in decision making. I also found myself getting...

Last night I was searching online for animal associations where I could offer voluntary assistance (since I was jobless at the moment and feeling a strong urge to occupy my time doing something productive). It then occurred to me that I never felt so much hope and urgency in a while, and I...

Noisy eaters. People that make the most noise while eating and chewing on their food. Also I find myself easily annoyed by friends or colleagues that have lack of a dignity or responsibility. I tend to shun leadership positions, but I have very high expectations for my leaders. If I find that...

I took the ennegram test on two occasions and I have 1 and 4 as my top two types. The first time I took this, type 4 came up 1 point above type 1. The second time I took it, type 1 came up 2 points above type 4 and a few others. They say that these two types are conflicting ones, and rare too...