Ok, lets face it. In the world we are living in, an attractive male would be associated with extroverted traits such confidence, boldness and being outspoken. As a result of this 'alpha' male expectation, introverts like us end up finding it more difficult to 'score' the girl we are interested in. I know that there are many conflicting arguments to the typical 'nice guy finishes last' statement and I do not completely agree with it myself. I just want to ask for some advice from you guys (and girls) on how an INFJ should develop his strong functions in order to feel secure about himself(without having to act like someone else) and also use these strengths to pursue his 'romantic interest'.
As an Infj myself, I find myself either attracting the wrong girls(girls that I have no romantic interest in) or getting attracted to someone who is'nt attracted to me (or way out of my league). Perhaps I should work on my strengths an weaknesses, and also have a change of mindset.
Share you thoughts!
As an Infj myself, I find myself either attracting the wrong girls(girls that I have no romantic interest in) or getting attracted to someone who is'nt attracted to me (or way out of my league). Perhaps I should work on my strengths an weaknesses, and also have a change of mindset.
Share you thoughts!