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So thank you all for good advice :)

Yeah :D I think it is. ( maybe overthinking JUST a little:DD)

But I think I havegot really good advice from here. I am pretty sure he is not into me, because we have known for such a long time and the situation is still the same. And the other thing is that maybe me having feelings for him clouds my judgement. I need to get my thoughts straight.

We are still in contact but not so much as before. But I was thinking could I Make it easier for him to move on and is there even a need for that.

I didn't want to loose him, I value him a lot. And eventhough it might not seem so, I honestly want the best for him. With whoever it might be. Maybe I need to think this one over. And while I'm doing that try to be a good friend for him. Just friend. And if I Can't get my head straight, I need...

Thank you for this. You might be quite right. I think I might need to work on this. and let him be.

No I wouldnt :p but the thing is I feel that he does things only when he is absolutely sure, and might not do it even at that Point. I think he doesen't lie at all. But I'm not sure if he is always in tune with his own emotions. But maybe it is just me hoping for things that isnt there. And I...

Thank you for your messages:) it is weird for me because i have never been in a situation like this. He still sends me messages and at work i feel like he wants me to spend time one on one with him or then he kind of feels to want to notice that he will do just fine without me. Hard to explain:D

Yes,we have been talking that time will tell and kind of that we still want to have good time and do trips together and stuff.

Yes,I think I have the time. Of course I think about it it is only in my own head.

And what can I do to help him if that is needed? Is it enough that I give him space?

Hi, I'm asking your thoughts on my situation. I have been friends with this INFJ for almost a year now. We have been working in the same place and been in contact with each almost every day at work as well as during our free time and texted many hours a day for the last 8 months. We have...