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Great analogy also....aspects that I found very insightful and will utilize incorporate into my own viewpoint

ErikAlberto, I love this well thought out analogy and I'm hesitant to use word analogy here, yet it's so fitting, and germaine to me. Trying to gain understanding and depth I seek, is why I used the word analogy...feelings can be so fleeting, here today gone tomorrow...yet feelings...

Thank you April...great insight I really appreciate it

Great insight...it's all about seeing and connecting to one's humanity it's this simple to me

I don't know how to answer this one....I think it's usually a case of being one sided unfortunately most of work done on my part. With the exception of one lady. Anway I quit dating last October 2021 because I simply was tired and drained from all the drama, facades, the games etc...

Thank you for your insight

You nailed it! Exactly what I've tried to stipulate I'm my previous responses in this particular thread!

Those who mine history for sins are not searching for truth but for opportunities to denigrate their own society, or for grievances that can be cashed in today at the expense of people who were not even born when the sins of the past were committed.

What's always been interesting to me is that history, what occurred, the mindsets and perspectives from a given historical era seems to be forgotten and or not properly given its due consideration when forging the present and the future. To me it's borderline arrogant ignorance for one to think...

For anyone to think they can sufficiently or even partially pass judgment upon an era long since passed, well usually this often ends in a misguided attempt to give a clear, unbiased perspective to fully appreciate who a person truly is. This doesn't mean we can't have opinions educated or...

To me there are general generation things that care always going to be present like fads, social norms, mindsets etc that are just part of the generation fabric... Having said this everybody is their own unique individual...making general assumptions like can there be mutual understanding...

Am I being to idealistic?

There is a lot here in your post to digest and this is fine. My first thought is and it's a mantra that I've made as part of my core who I am that is nobody gets to define who you are today. Having said this generally speaking I never offer up advice in the general sense of the word simply...

So up front I was married for 22 years lost my wife could cancer 5 years ago...I add this only as a possibility of it being germaine to this discussion... I'm going to be brutally frank here...but I usually always am lol... I have found and it may be just who I've attracted who can be generally...

Some additional thoughts.... Avoiding the swirling vortex of entropy is something I've found unavoidable from a relationship point of view....I've noticed several comments from others here about having high standards, perfectionism type of mindset etc This got me to thinking is it that is it...