Recent content by Shananga | INFJ Forum

Recent content by Shananga

  1. Shananga

    [INFJ] My home is my castle

    I usually tell them "I am busy" (if it's my landlord, I suggest another time that suits me, to keep the peace) or I'll say " I was just on the go, to visit my granny". Then I grab my coat and leave together with them, pop into my grandma's apartment complex next door and sneak back through the...
  2. Shananga

    [INFJ] My home is my castle

    :smile::smile::smile:
  3. Shananga

    [INFJ] My home is my castle

    Yes, that's what I feel as well, when I am caught off guard, it's hard to say no. It's amazing that some people can be so generous when it comes to their homes - I had a friend who would never lock his door, welcome everyone at his home no matter who and when and cook a meal for spontaneous...
  4. Shananga

    [INFJ] My home is my castle

    Yeah, it's disrespectful I think. Assuming someone has to give you some of their time just because you're in the mood for it. I definitely know that ball of rage :grin:
  5. Shananga

    [INFJ] My home is my castle

    Love it!:smiley:
  6. Shananga

    [INFJ] My home is my castle

    Doesn't matter who, it's more the fact that I am not prepared I guess. Makes me panic. Plus, I find it absolutely impolite.
  7. Shananga

    [INFJ] My home is my castle

    Haha, yeah, me too - I pretend I am not at home, even stop to move or breathe
  8. Shananga

    [INFJ] My home is my castle

    First post for me...but a really important question to me is: are there other INFJ's being very peculiar about visitors, especially spontaneous, unnanounced visitors? Or is this an introvert trait in general? Or am I simply overreacting when I send away unannounced guests? Other people seem to...
  9. Shananga

    "too shy, too tired, too serious" - sorry about not fitting into your box of how people should be

    "too shy, too tired, too serious" - sorry about not fitting into your box of how people should be