Recent content by shahmeran | INFJ Forum

Recent content by shahmeran

  1. shahmeran

    Enforcing your beliefs onto others

    It would only make me more determined to tell him to stuff it. It sure wouldn't make me a believer, rather it would totally turn me off whatever "word" hewas spewing.
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    INFJ + INFP friendships

    It's gotta be tricky ;-)
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    INFJ + INFP friendships

    I'm very much a 'to each his own' sort of person for the most part, and rarely only see one answer/side to something, so I often butt heads with those who proclaim "the" answer to anything, since IMO it's not "the" anything, but only their opinion - and what's wrong with stating it that way...
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    INFJ + INFP friendships

    No question that it can be a good trait Morgain. Not all those of a type express its traits the same way, and added to that different people have different 'issues' and carry different baggage, and I think it was some of that baggage which skewed her outlook on things. I think INFJs have a...
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    INFJ + INFP friendships

    She was waaay more of a 'crusader' than I am in general, even though INFJs can be known for that. It's not a dominant trait in me, with rare exception. She was very quick to find offense on others' behalf, as much or more so than on behalf of herself. Offense where none was meant, I might...
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    INFJ + INFP friendships

    It didn't work for me as an INFJ having an INFP friend. She consistently misinterpreted and/or misunderstood me and attributed only negative motivations to me when I didn't match up with/meet her criteria for whatever. I am much more tolerant of and accepting of POVs that differ from my own...