Recent content by seashell eyes

Female. Both? I think it depends on the day. And the other person.

I think people know when something feels good or does not feel good. If being submissive stops feeling good in a relationship, then it's unhealthy and should be re-evaluated or discontinued. But a very submissive person is unlikely to stand up for themselves, and a very dominant person is...

I relate to that. I hardly have any female friends... it's just easier to talk to males, who tend to be straightforward and don't talk about the stereotypical female stuff (not that I don't like it... I just don't think life should revolve around it). And women tend to be gossipers, which makes...

Agreed, I think it's only human to have some kind of physical reaction. Male or female.

I'm not attracted to certain voices, like when people talk very quickly or have an unusually high/low voice. I might make some snap judgments about them, but it doesn't bother me enough to avoid the person -- it's just another quirk.

That was unnecessary. Anyway, I would opt for a sexual cuddle party over a non-sexual one. Why even bother with the facade? Are there really adults out there who are capable of cuddling without erections? If so, that somehow weirds me out even more.

That's also a possibility. You're the girlfriend, and they probably don't know you as well as your bf... yet! Definitely don't overthink it. Awkward silences happen to literally everyone. And it's definitely better to be your weird self, at the very least so that you can make friends with the...

That's me, all day every day. I get especially philosophical on planes. I have a fear of flying, and being forced to travel in a tin can in the sky makes me ask big questions. I find myself accepting the concept of death as a way to finally "know" the universe. And in the process, I'll have...

Hahaha... You remind me of my old INFJ boyfriend. He was very obsessed with women, in an intensely romantic way. I don't know if ALL our type is like that (I'm not), but you probably just have a strong sex drive. And that's not really conclusive in typing you as an INFJ. Plenty of other types...

I dated an INFJ once, for about 3 years. We had extreme highs and extreme lows. At the end of the day, there just wasn't a "spark," and it didn't work out. But I think that if you can communicate effectively and realize when you're being irrational/overly emotional (that was our problem... oh...

I'm a huge overthinker. I feel ya. If I DON'T filter myself, I often find myself putting my foot in my mouth. But at the end of the day, that's better than being quiet and alone in the world. And the more practice you get, the better you will be at socializing. As for people not responding to...