Recent content by Sandor | INFJ Forum

Recent content by Sandor

  1. Sandor

    Do INFJs desire other INFJs?

    My ex wife is INFJ and for me she was the greatest love of my life. I cared very deeply for her up to the point she cheated on me which is a strange thing for an INFJ to do. To this day she can't explain why she did it but she's miserable with the guy, pregnant with his child and tells me every...
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    Are You a Good Person?

    Apparently I am the goodest of the good, whatever. I don't see it in myself
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    Are INFJs lost in their 'fantasy world'?

    Everyone fantasizes about something in their life but I most certainly don't get lost in them. I'm probably the biggest pragmatist and realist you will ever meet as I see la Tèrre derriere de la vôile, the world behind the curtain. Now since my divorce I've started to create my own comfort zone...
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    [INFJ] How was you as a child?

    As a small child very precocious, happy to play on my own but had a few close friends. By high school I was withdrawn, still a few friends but suffering at the hands of my stepfather abuse didn't help me. I have never really been a one to go to bars and clubs, I hate large crowds and loud...