Recent content by RunDeep

I recently started dating an ENFJ girl, so it's great to know I can come to you for advice. lol ;) It's late right now and I'm about to hit the hay, but I'll have some questions for ya soon.

Heck no... sorry

She broke up with him because he was she felt suffocated. He was manipulative and clingy she said and would make her feel guilty over really small things, like going to hang out with her friends and going shopping, visiting parents, etc. without him along.

Hey everyone! Sorry I haven't been on here for a while! I've been going through a major depression the past month or so. I lost my job and then things continued to spiral out of control for me emotionally. There have been times I just wanted to give up, if I'm being completely honest... It's...

How so?

The Flintstones and The Simpsons!

So it's been about 2 days now, and the ex sent me a message on Facebook. lol Basically telling me that him and Emily are "best friends" and that I'm mean to not be comfortable with it. I responded and said that I never told Emily to stop being friends with him, but that she made that choice...

Thank you for the advice everyone! I really appreciate it all the wise words. :blush: So I talked to Emily about the issue today and she said that she suspected it bothered me and was going to bring the subject up on her own. She said that she completely understands where I am coming from, and...

This is my thinking as well. Exes tend to complicate things with the current partner and it puts an extra discomfort there that could be avoided. Why do something that could potentially make your partner feel unsure, insecure, worried, annoyed, whatever the case may be? Personally, I want my...

Yeah, it's the opposite with the people I know. There was this girl at my work who was dating someone and they briefly remained friends after the breakup. All of our mutual friends thought it was extremely strange and it pissed off a lot of people. Eventually she realized it wasn't realistic to...

I'm not sure what kind of people you're around, but I barely know anyone who stays friends with their exes. Certainly not when they have new relationships. That's why this thing with Emily took me for a bit of a loop. Even she admitted she knows it probably looks strange to other people. And...

THIS is exactly how I feel. I am not worried she is going to cheat. I trust her. It's holding onto this relationship which I find concerning and not being able to move on. I feel like her ex is a ghost of the past still desperately trying to cling onto the relationship. He can't let go. He...

Okay then. You seemed awfully defensive right off the bat. Anyway, I'm sticking to my boundaries.

Just a wild guess. Are you friends with an ex? ;)