Recent content by RosesAndViolets

Hello! I am a person who prefers to have very few close friends, as I am not a fan of knowing many people on a surface level. But even with the close few, I find it's sometimes challenging to let them in. I'm just an extremely private person. I don't see it as a bad thing. I'm wondering...

Thanks to each of you for your constructive feedback. I've seen some themes about being myself, knowing myself, and letting that speak for me. And of course, that I should just do the best I can with that; I should feel no presure to explain. I definitely resonate with only sharing with those...

Hello, fellow bloggers. I hope my question is simple yet descriptive enough to create some dialogue. This is a personal problem that I don't think is related to my personality type, but I have a really hard time telling people about myself. Whenever people ask, I feel a pretty intense...

I think there's a strong connection between our strengths and weaknesses. I may even go as far as to say that each of our strengths is a weakness depending upon how we use it, and vice versa. So to answer your question, I don't think it's something we can or should try to isolate. The two can be...

Yes....i think we've made our points. A lot time is spent in my mid. To be more definitive, I would say I think about six times what I say. So that's a lot of time. Much of the day. And much of that solitude I enjoy so much.

Well I see that you posted this quite some time ago. If it's not too personal, maybe you could give an update on where you two are now.

I can see how that vulnerability can be a uncomfortable thing. But something important to understand is that this vulnerability (well in my own INFJ experience and another that I know well) is exactly what makes an INFJ feel so connected to another person. So I'm sure she sees and appreciates...